casyc Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 I have been doing some deep thinking about this situation, in the wee hours after my sister is in bed for the night. My previous post: Previous post I found out about my wives affair via reading her sent email. It spoke of love to OP and openness she hasn't felt in quite a while. She also stated love for him. Likely this has nothing to do with my sister, and she is using these as an excuse/smokescreen as to not hurt my feelings. Maybe she is involved in a love triangle. It seems like that may be the case. Or am I reaching here? Any thoughts?? I have hit stumbling blocks locating a counselor, My insurance provider is looking into finding me one that is covered by my plan in my area that specializes in this area. I am still waiting for their reply. I requested the info on Friday. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted December 1, 2003 Share Posted December 1, 2003 You could be right. People having affairs will sometimes make any leap of illogic to "explain" their affairs in some way so they can take responsibility off of themselves. I've heard it blamed on poor housekeeping, nagging, and "not being fun". Hope you have gotten to see a counselor by now. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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