hummingbird Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Just curious after a long conversation with friends over some pomegranate martinis and beer (men and women) do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim. Anyone of you out there care to comment? Do the naked women and the sex scenes get you turned on? Is this a safer non-porn way to fantasize, get turned on, see other women naked??? does this affect your R? Sex in your R? how you see the woman in your R? Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ? ps. most of our group thought it didn't really because if they wanted to, they would just look at porn. But, couldn't it be that this is at least without as much stigma and guilt? or??????????????????? Link to post Share on other sites
caramel c Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn Link to post Share on other sites
bhweller Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn what are you sceptical about ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author hummingbird Posted September 17, 2009 Author Share Posted September 17, 2009 All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn What's to be skeptical about??? there are lots of guys who focus their energy (sexual) on their partner and not on porn. Sports? eh. couldn't address that. I have not ever known a guy who doesnt' enjoy some kind of sports. But that doesn't answer the query? Truly, there are numbers of guys on this forum who don't look at porn; nor should they be placed in some sort of skeptical category for it. still would like to hear from any MEN who don't and what they think about the posted questions. Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 I doubt you'll get any responses, people can be more honest on the net. IRL, you'll get insecure or embarassed men who will instead profess to never use porn. Filthy liars, the lot of em. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn I am even more skeptical of a guy who defines his masculinty by his ability to passively look at sports and porn. Those aren't the things that make a man a man. Especially a man that women respect. Link to post Share on other sites
caramel c Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 I don't know any guys who don't ever look at porn, and/or don't enjoy engaging in or watch any type of sport. When I say skeptical I mean I would find it hard to believe that they don't. Link to post Share on other sites
caramel c Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 I am even more skeptical of a guy who defines his masculinty by his ability to passively look at sports and porn. Those aren't the things that make a man a man. Especially a man that women respect. I understand and agree. To clarify, what I said had nothing to do with defining masculinity. It is only what I have always observed to be true of guys. Not a definition, but more of extra-curricular activities, if you will. Link to post Share on other sites
fral945 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim. I don't. Why go for a tease when you can have the real thing (sex) or see the real thing (porn)? It's like someone who mainly drinks hard liquor going to a bar and getting a beer. What's the point? It won't give you the stimulation you desire, it's just a tease. Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ? I don't pay attention to the media or popular culture. I just have sex and watch porn. Link to post Share on other sites
bhweller Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 I am a straight male, but I don't really care about sports or porn. I will watch either one but its not a big deal to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Rebellious Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 Just curious after a long conversation with friends over some pomegranate martinis and beer (men and women) do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim. Anyone of you out there care to comment? Do the naked women and the sex scenes get you turned on? Is this a safer non-porn way to fantasize, get turned on, see other women naked??? does this affect your R? Sex in your R? how you see the woman in your R? Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ? ps. most of our group thought it didn't really because if they wanted to, they would just look at porn. But, couldn't it be that this is at least without as much stigma and guilt? or??????????????????? meh that question sounds too complicated. Some groups/cultures are repressed about sex and make too big a deal of porn. I don't watch sports or movies and the best porn for me is live. Link to post Share on other sites
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