? Guys who DON"T look at porn and Are in healthy/sexual R

[hummingbird]

Just curious after a long conversation with friends over some pomegranate martinis and beer (men and women)

 

do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim.

 

Anyone of you out there care to comment? Do the naked women and the sex scenes get you turned on? Is this a safer non-porn way to fantasize, get turned on, see other women naked???

 

does this affect your R? Sex in your R? how you see the woman in your R?

 

Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ?

 

ps. most of our group thought it didn't really because if they wanted to, they would just look at porn. But, couldn't it be that this is at least without as much stigma and guilt? or???????????????????

[caramel c]

All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn

[bhweller]

All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn

 

what are you sceptical about ?

[hummingbird]

All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn

 

What's to be skeptical about???

there are lots of guys who focus their energy (sexual) on their partner and not on porn.

Sports? eh. couldn't address that. I have not ever known a guy who doesnt' enjoy some kind of sports.

 

But that doesn't answer the query? Truly, there are numbers of guys on this forum who don't look at porn; nor should they be placed in some sort of skeptical category for it.

 

still would like to hear from any MEN who don't and what they think about the posted questions.

[Enema]

I doubt you'll get any responses, people can be more honest on the net.

 

IRL, you'll get insecure or embarassed men who will instead profess to never use porn. Filthy liars, the lot of em.

[Jersey Shortie]

All I have to say is that I'm skeptical of any guy who does not enjoy these 2 things: sports and porn

 

I am even more skeptical of a guy who defines his masculinty by his ability to passively look at sports and porn. Those aren't the things that make a man a man. Especially a man that women respect.

[caramel c]

I don't know any guys who don't ever look at porn, and/or don't enjoy engaging in or watch any type of sport. When I say skeptical I mean I would find it hard to believe that they don't.

[caramel c]

I am even more skeptical of a guy who defines his masculinty by his ability to passively look at sports and porn. Those aren't the things that make a man a man. Especially a man that women respect.

 

I understand and agree. To clarify, what I said had nothing to do with defining masculinity. It is only what I have always observed to be true of guys. Not a definition, but more of extra-curricular activities, if you will.

[fral945]

do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim.

 

I don't. Why go for a tease when you can have the real thing (sex) or see the real thing (porn)? It's like someone who mainly drinks hard liquor going to a bar and getting a beer. What's the point? It won't give you the stimulation you desire, it's just a tease.

 

Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ?

 

I don't pay attention to the media or popular culture. I just have sex and watch porn.

[bhweller]

I am a straight male, but I don't really care about sports or porn. I will watch either one but its not a big deal to me.

[Rebellious]

Just curious after a long conversation with friends over some pomegranate martinis and beer (men and women)

 

do guys who are happily involved, have fulfilling sexual R with their SO find other sources of a non-porn porn?? ie primarily, R rated movies that now a days for the most part always include graphic T&A and graphic sex; or Lad mags such as Maxim.

 

Anyone of you out there care to comment? Do the naked women and the sex scenes get you turned on? Is this a safer non-porn way to fantasize, get turned on, see other women naked???

 

does this affect your R? Sex in your R? how you see the woman in your R?

 

Your feelings about media and this type of titilation ?

 

ps. most of our group thought it didn't really because if they wanted to, they would just look at porn. But, couldn't it be that this is at least without as much stigma and guilt? or???????????????????

 

 

meh that question sounds too complicated. Some groups/cultures are repressed about sex and make too big a deal of porn. I don't watch sports or movies and the best porn for me is live.