SummerLady Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 I know most go through this but I am going through it now. I am in my late 30's and it hit me. My father just turned 69, my kids are getting older, life is a cycle and soon all will change. I am not immature but honestly never gave this much thought. I feel good overall but know I am in the 2nd half of my life and can't imagine people I love being gone. True but sad. Hard core Reality........ Link to post Share on other sites
adzent Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Heres how it is; The one single, most certain constant in the entire universe, no matter how magnificent it is, is Death. But the thing is not to fear death, for yourself or your family. Spend your life with those you love, they are the people who make your life beautiful and you should always hold them close, especially your partner Youl realise as you age that life is short, and spending ti with that one person you love the most is so special, and nothing should ruin it. If you spen doyur life with them, and enjoy every single waking day, the time will come to finally let go. But always reflect, always look back on the perfect days you had, and just think of the days to come. With my partner, i am soo deeply in love i just cant describe it. im totally swept of my feet, and ive felt like this for so long now all that matters is being with who you love, dont listen to what anybody says or thinks or whatever you get one life, and ill be damned if i let anyone else impose on my life with my loved ones. Its what matters, those who dont care dont deserve too. Enjoy and embrace life, no matter what it throws at you, you only live once, so make it the best you can Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 when you love someone, then lose them, you come to realize that they really aren't gone. They might not be on this plane of existence, but their spirit and their love still exist. They're in your heart and on your mind and very much a part of your world through your memories and through family members ... someone once said that you really don't lose the ones you love until every last person who knew and loved them is gone. And I believe that. now go look up the lyrics to Billy Joel's "Goodnight My Angel (Lullabye)" – there's a lot of truth to what he tells his child about love living on forever ... Link to post Share on other sites
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