lost_in_chgo Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 No, didn't download it. The samples address alot, but I think that completely supressing yourself can't be a good long term solution. Link to post Share on other sites
lost_in_chgo Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 When the rain is blowing in your face And the whole world is on your case I would offer you a warm embrace To make you feel my love When the evening shadows and the stars appear And there is no one to dry your tears I could hold you for a million years To make you feel my love I know you haven't made your mind up yet But I would never do you wrong I've known it from the moment that we met No doubt in my mind where you belong I'd go hungry, I'd go blind for you I'd go crawling down the aisle for you There ain't nothing that I wouldn't do To make you feel my love The storms are raging on a rolling sea Down the highway of regret The winds of change are blowing wild and free But you ain't seen nothing like me yet There ain't nothing that I wouldn't do Go to the ends of the earth for you Make you happy, make your dreams come true To make you feel my love (Bob Dylan/Garth Brooks) Of course you have to talk to me first Link to post Share on other sites
Author KitWalker Posted December 3, 2003 Author Share Posted December 3, 2003 Love it!!!!!!!!!! NEver heard that one before! But then again, not something you can give someone who you're supposed to 'not contact' huh? Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Kit-did she call? I think if any of you do contact your ex's..make sure you play it cool..do NOT sound over joyed to talk to them, not that you aren't, but you cannot smother them too much! Lost - have you tried writing an e-mail and then not sending it? I've heard that it is a good way to get yourself to stop contacting the person - although I understand that you don't want to stop...I know how it is..it is so hard Link to post Share on other sites
lost_in_chgo Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Yeah, dozens of times. I finally just needed to make the contact after five weeks of nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KitWalker Posted December 3, 2003 Author Share Posted December 3, 2003 Ok some progress... I sent an sms this arvo to say simply "Feeling any better?" I got a call about half an hour later and it was her!!! We talked for about half an hour from how she's finally recovered from her sore stomach to stuff about her selling her house to other things about work and my sister getting married. She did say a couple of thigns however that kinda made me feel sad... 1. She said we'd catch up for coffee either on Thursday or Friday this week but that we'd also catch up with a couple of other colleagues that are mutual friends 2. She will be going away to travel for a year, but in March, if she doesnt sell her house by then she'll have to wait, but if she sells her home before March 04, she'll be leaving to travel....something that she wants to do! She was very talkative to me, I never brought up anything about us nor the relationship nor that I love or miss her so much. Just talked to her as a friend. She talked to me too as though I was a friend.... how should I take this????? I did ask what she was diong this weekend, she told me she was working on the house, I asked if she needed a hand, but she said that she would be fine so I didnt push it? Link to post Share on other sites
maxmuscle Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 KitWalker, You have to learn how to hold back some of your feelings. I've found out the hard way. My last girlfriend, I was with her for 8 years. I made so many mistakes, I nevered held back any of my feelings. I chased after her to a point of no return. She actually got married just to get away from me. I am not doing this with my current ex. I am not doing the things that I did with my ex girlfriend of 8 years. My current ex of 3years has emailed me saying that I am special to her, she misses me, and still loves me. I have given her time, space, and whatever else she has needed. I am still not going to pursue her until I am ready. She broke up with me, so why should I chase her? I am not going through that for a second time. I didn't work the first time. So this is a little lesson ot learn. But I also know I am relationship material. I never really been single. I am not going to be down on myself. Women just don't stay with guys long term if your not worth it! Link to post Share on other sites
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