gypsi Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Well its been 2 months no contact very proud of myself i havent heard a word from her, not even on my birthday. Still sucks i am still in love with her but moving on with my life. I wonder if i will ever hear from her again or even see her?? Anyone go no contact for so long and hear from their ex again?? Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Well its been 2 months no contact very proud of myself i havent heard a word from her, not even on my birthday. Still sucks i am still in love with her but moving on with my life. I wonder if i will ever hear from her again or even see her?? Anyone go no contact for so long and hear from their ex again?? Nice job on the NC! The "wondering" will soon turn to nothing at all, not even a thought. Sure, there might be some days you think back to the past but, they get fewer and further between. As for hearing from the ex after NC..Yes. We "tried" again and it lasted a month.. Somethings are better thought of in your head only. There's a reason we/them are ex's. Those reasons rarely change. Somethings are better left alone to die in our memories/past. Link to post Share on other sites
bella16 Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 It only gets easier as you keep on moving on with your life. Great job! I'll tell ya, NC was very difficult for, so then I finally put my foot down and said this is it, I will not reak NC... 2 weeks goes by and I was fine, not thinking about him, I was happy again, I felt like I was myself again. Then he contacted me outta nowhere! The texts just kept piling in and he told me he wanted me back. Of course we are back together now, because we are in love and we both want to work on any issues we have, not run from them. Good luck! Remember, NC is mainly for yourself to heal, not to get them back. It was weird for me. I finally was serious about NC and was doing great and he came back. Link to post Share on other sites
Darren09 Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 2 months wow thats pretty impresive if you ask me. am currently on 10days NC and i have to honestly say that its so friggin hard. i dont know how i got to 10days to be honest with you let alone how far you have gone. She was last 1 to text me asking me how my interview went and i ignored it. well done for sticking to it hope i can be more like you. as for them getting in touch again...... they probably will if there life takes a turn for the worst. they prob think you still be there for them so they test the water n contact you. i dont want that to happen so not holding my breath Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer Girl Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 gypsi I am also at 2 months NC... but my relationship has been on and off and I have seen him on the road a short wave of the hand.... At one time he contacted me after 4 months.... We have never been more than 4 months NC.... but considering this on again off again.... I need to move on... Unfortuanatly we frequent the same roads, the same surfing spot... etc.... You are doing good by NC.... and I know how you feel about still being in love.... I know for me.... I don't want the contact as I feel I need to have some time to digest it all and see it from an outside perspective... and that will take some time Link to post Share on other sites
angelface78 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 I am 3 months NC its sooo hard!! i like you am wondering will i ever hear his voice again?? will i ever see him again??? Link to post Share on other sites
Beeotch Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Yes I had an ex whom I had no contact with for a year...not a word from him...and then a year later he resurfaces and sends me a lengthy email. Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Yes I had an ex whom I had no contact with for a year...not a word from him...and then a year later he resurfaces and sends me a lengthy email. Any value to the email? Link to post Share on other sites
Author gypsi Posted September 23, 2009 Author Share Posted September 23, 2009 same here angelface, thats whats so horrible the wonderig if you will EVER see them or hear their voice ever again. This person that was once your world has now just dissapeared off the face of the planet. I dont even know who she is anymore she has gone completely cold towards me...like i dont even exist anymore, i honestly dont understand how someone who claimed to love you so much can just get you out of their system so fast. Maybe i am weak and pathetic but i try REALLY hard to get her out of my mind but she always finds her way back. Link to post Share on other sites
adamt Posted September 23, 2009 Share Posted September 23, 2009 Been 4 months of NC and has helped me to move on quicker. She was ready to move on when we split but also didnt want to give me false hope. We bumped into one of her exes once and i remember her saying that was the first time she had spoke to him in 5 years since they split. So i always knew she would not speak to me once we had split up. NC and keeping your life as busy as possible is the best way to move on Link to post Share on other sites
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