yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Is 40+ partners too many? (If you are 25) Am I a slut? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Over how much time? A week? A month? 40 years? Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 25 yrs of age Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 i think the term slut is often used wrong...do you feel like a slut? do you see anything wrong with all the partners you have had? i also think it is just other peoples opinion. i do not see anything wrong with having a multitude of partners, as long as you are ok with it. (and safe) but i have learned not to always tell the whole truth about the numbers... i don't think i would sleep with someone who told me their numbers..i would just feel like a number too. also my boyfriend hasn't asked. Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Well, you asked for opinions, so here's mine. At 25 years of age, 40+ partners would throw me for a loop if you were my boyfriend. All sorts of red flags would go off in my head. Why the need for so many partners? Do you view sex as just an "act" and not anything beyond that? Are you a committment phobic? I would definitely have a lot of questions for you. That is just me though. Some people on here might think that's totally fine and normal. It really depends on the person. You cannot define yourself based on individual experiences. Opinions will be different for everyone you come across. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 If I was with a girl and knew she had been with 40 dudes...yeah, I don't think I'd be very cool with that. That's REALLY up there. 20's kinda pushing it, but 40? Christ. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Im wondering yogi if there is a connection to your original post of You hate Big Cock loving women and your 40+ partners as well as your post on friday regarding the 13 steps of love making.... is it because you never get any second timers why you have such a high range of partners?.....Friday were you advertising sort of speak for new partners cuz your running out of women in in your area? very curious on this..... wondering if these all link together somehow..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 thats crazy feedback. - Thank you all for being honest. Now, I will try to be honest as possible. I have had about 8 "repeat" women. As in 8 of the women I slept with more than only once. All of those 8 were slept with "many" times. (IE `between 5 and 50 times a piece) 3 of those 8 were slept with hundreds (thousands?) of times. So to answer your question, no they are not all one night stands. I dont know that there are any links between my comments and questions. I guess I read other peoples comments, and have found some things about myself "questionable" Now, - I will say this: The big cock woman, who works upstairs. Yes, she bothers me. I dont see how that has to do with all my partners. I went out with her for 3+ months, and we slept together about 50 times. She never made any "bad" comments about my size, and she even claims that one of our sexual experiences together, was "her single best sexual experience" And I definitly agree, that night was pretty insane. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 I agree with Leikela. I wouldn't want to be number forty-one even WITH the doctor's certificate stating the guy was free of STDs. Nor would I expect any guy to respect me if I had as many flings. But I also agree with LostForWords. I'm thinking you might have the wrong forum if your looking to post personals. And you know what they say: "If your talking so much about it...than it's usually because your not getting any." Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 I have no interest in meeting women on here. No offense. Actually, I have only one interest as far as my "hanging out" on love shack It is simply that I have a real geniune love of sex, relationships, etc - Just because I am not married, or in a relationship right now does NOT mean I dont have something to add. Period. Deal with it. If you would prefer me not to come here fine, but its not going to be because I cant find any dates. Please. You dont know what I look like, who I am, what my values are. Maybe I've had alot of partners because I really love sex with strangers. ? What you precieve as dirty I agree with. I am dirty. But with that dirt has come something else. Experience. Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 i like your post's yogi-mon, i hope you don't blow me off too. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 If you would prefer me not to come here fine, but its not going to be because I cant find any dates. Please. You dont know what I look like, who I am, what my values are. whoa dude chill..... where did you get in my post i didnt want you coming here.... god its your preference.... im just merely stating what it seems like to me..... i just find that somehow perhaps all of your posts were linked in some way shape or form..... and yeh i think you did come across on friday as advertising.... not saying thats a bad thing either..... cuz frankly i had fun with everyone on friday about it.... its just the way im percieving you because of how your coming across..... and as far as your 40+ partners..... dood that is way high.... to regard your self as a slut..... tell me this.... would that be a compliment to you? or a derogatory remark/insult?..... I just get this feeling that your almost sounding "proud" not ashamed of having over 40+ partners almost as if you were gloating in which case man you really need to put a yield sign on your doodoo cuz your more than willing to let lil willy use his own thinking which can be a hazardous to yours as well as many other womens health. Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Man, you are busy. Not that it matters but exactly how many partners have you had? 40+ is a bit indefinite. Too many for whom? I know you love women, so do I. But the women that post, here , may put you in the "toxic" bachelor category: One who uses a women like Kleenex and throws her away. No one wants to be perceived as disposable. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 well I dont like the fact that I have had so many partners for the reason that it makes me feel like a slut. I dont like the fact that when I meet a girl that I care about, that she asks me how many partners I've had - and I have to tell her the truth - that sucks. Sarah, thanks - no I wont blow u off... and Im not going to blow anyone off... I am just ME. I am a really nice guy, and dont blow anyone off. But look, I dont like the fact that I've had as many partners. which is why I am asking - and - well my suspicions are correct, for most women - it is intimidating - and thats a ****ty thing because people have alot of pre-concieved notion about people like me - that we cant love, or have commitment phobias. The truth of course is almost the opposite. Women are not kleenex. If a woman really puts an effort into me, I will return the effort. Unfortantly, most women I meet dont do that.... Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 But look, I dont like the fact that I've had as many partners. which is why I am asking - and - well my suspicions are correct, for most women - it is intimidating - and thats a ****ty thing because people have alot of pre-concieved notion about people like me - that we cant love, or have commitment phobias. Well hopefully they wont see this laying next to your bedside table then...... and this is the other thing that makes me wonder about your question yogi..... Your Guide to SERVING women....... Yogis Guide to Servicing Women: Preface: Remember every woman is different, what works for one woman will not work for the next and so on. This guide also assumes you have taken the necessary precautions... And so i ask again..... would calling you or labeling you a slut (In your eyes) make you feel like its a compliment or would you feel insulted? I almost feel like if i answer you either way Ill be feeding your ego. Link to post Share on other sites
Jamie31 Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Well, I am not going to ramble on...I will just say this - Yes, I think that is WAAAAYYYYYYYYYY to many for anyone, much less someone only 25 yrs. old. And that's all I have to say about that. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Well, you haven't met me yet Yogi! Tee, hee Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Careful, Bubbles! You might hurt him!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 my dear, the folk of loveshack hate me because I am virile. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Mmmmmmeeeeeeoooooooowwwwwww I won't hurt him...........much. I am an "older" woman you know. I couldn't probably teach him a thing or two! Maybe....... Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 my dear, the folk of loveshack hate me because I am virile. yogi man, don't mistake promiscuity for virility. That's a mistake many young guys make. I know, you're 25 and studly with women. It feels good. But these boards are overflowing with posters who, by stint of training, value system or maturity, are going to look beneath the numbers and at least inquire whether your sexual rambunctiousness conceals a misogyny. When you put numbers like that up on the boards, get ready for some darts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 couldn't teach me a thing or two? or could? "older" woman? Older women are the reason I got myself into this 40+ partner predictamint. Cant say no to experienced women you know. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 I won't hurt him...........much. I am an "older" woman you know. I couldn't probably teach him a thing or two! Maybe....... ROFL You go girl!... And don't forget to get back to us and let us all know how it goes. Meanwhile, I'll send you the rubber gloves and disinfectant! Better yet --- How 'bout a hazmat suit?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogi-mon Posted November 24, 2003 Author Share Posted November 24, 2003 Better yet --- How 'bout a hazmat suit?? hehehhe that is funny... lmao but no seriously, the trouble is I cutish - i am physically very clean, but have a diiirrrrttty mind... but no more dirty then any other man. I just admit it. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted November 24, 2003 Share Posted November 24, 2003 Enigma, You're more fun than yogi........ROTFL! Please send the necessary items and I'll take the boy on.....let's see him lick his way around my panties in that sort of gettup! LMFAO Yogi, Yes I would probably teach you a thing or two as long as you can get past the rubber gloves and the hazmut suit! LOL! Oh this just isn't right.....I'm sitting here at work laughing my a** off! People are going to think I actually enjoy my work.......this is just wrong! Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
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