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you evil woman,

let's see him lick his way around my panties in that sort of gettup!
but **** i love it...

 

ok well when you get that hazmat suit, why dont you pm me your # and i'll show you how to lick through vinyl

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Mmmmmmmm rubber! :p Pass the salt please! I'm laughing too hard here I can't think of anything to say.

 

So.......yogi........you willing to meet me now? Enigma is expecting a full report!

 

Bubbles

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my dear, the folk of loveshack hate me because I am virile.

 

Dude..... no one hates you..... but like i said, if you seem to be fishing for compliments, posting about 40+ woman is not gonna get you your compliments... and yeh maybe your confusing virilty with promiscuity...... well compliments with cept maybe bubbles LOLOLOL you go girl..... be that 41st!!! maybe you can teach him a thing or two!! definately would be fun for you to try at any rate!!

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Yorkville? Geez, Bubbles - maybe you should grab this one. Sounds like there's bucks to be had :laugh:

 

Yogi -

 

A couple of my fellows had lost count of their partners, they'd had so many (they were older than you, thank heavens!). In both cases, they had huge self-esteem problems.

 

If you don't like what you've been doing, you may want to dig deep to figure out why you're doing it. You like sex, fine, but you can sleep as many times using as many variations with one partner as you can with dozens. Do you need to feel virile and think that being a 'stud' is doing the job for you? Do you question your own masculinity? Are you looking for some sort of validation - perhaps of you as a man at all? Is every woman a boost to your ego -that only falls again until the next woman?

 

You don't have to answer any of this here but the fact that you don't really like yourself as 'slut' speaks to the possibility that you do it hoping it will fill a need or fix a problem. Usually, these sorts of measures fail to do what you want - which is why you keep doing them. People do lots of things to self-medicate or fill a hole in their lives; they drink too much, spend all their time at work, engage in tons of sexual activity - and usually there is something driving them to do it. Once people have sorted out the cause and chosen more healthy ways to deal with it, they tend to feel a lot better.

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really im not.

I am insecure about it - and I wanted to get some peoples inputs on it thats all.

I FEEL BAD.

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if you don't like what you've been doing, you may want to dig deep to figure out why you're doing it. You like sex, fine, but you can sleep as many times using as many variations with one partner as you can with dozens. Do you need to feel virile and think that being a 'stud' is doing the job for you? Do you question your own masculinity? Are you looking for some sort of validation - perhaps of you as a man at all? Is every woman a boost to your ego -that only falls again until the next woman?

 

This is why I am on here. Because of people who are as wise as moimeme.

She always has something USEFUL to say rather than taking personal shots.

and, well, she obviously has some real good insights if i do say so.

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GEEEEZZZZZ im not taking personal shots ...... thats the whole reason why i asked if all of your posts were linked...... to let you know that maybe just maybe you have a self esteem issue... and thats why it appears to some people (myself) why you appear to need compliments as well as the whole slut theory too.......

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Im not that complex.

 

definitly have some self esteem issues.

I wouldnt waste ur time too much analysing me tho, I think that'd b pretty boring.

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I don't think the number of people a person has sex with makes them a slut. A person becomes a slut depending on the way they conduct themselves before and after sex. It's in the attitude.....not the action.

 

Just my opinion.

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LOL. Yogi don't go!!! Your posts are the most entertaining on LS - and this is heavy stuff - WE NEED A LAUGH. Is 40+ too much for what? No you are not a slut. 40+ is not that uncommon for young men either. It is only a problem if you or your partners are in it for more than a good time (nothing wrong with having a good time). If you are beginning to feel it's a bit meaningless or if it seems to happen without you making an active choice, if you no longer enjoy it and are worried about whether you can sustain a longer term relationship - then is the time to ask yourself some questions.

 

I have the impression from your posts that behind all the laughs there is some insecurity. But is it:

 

1) Insecurity that your friends are settling down while you are happy not to? If so roll on 50+ but get to the bottom of the insecurity - don't put yourself down everyone is complex :)

 

or

 

2) Insecurity that you will not be liked when someone really gets to know you so better be off before they do? If so then yes it's getting to be a problem.

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meanon, thx - and the hazmat comment was made eariler by someone hehhe..

 

like as in "condom used for protection from STD's" hazmat suit is used for protection

against deadly biotoxins and other noxious agents.

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Hey Yogi,

 

I've located the hazmut suit........I'm on my way! What's the address again?

 

By the way on a serious note.......I've had 20 lovers myself so as the bible says........"those who are without sin can cast the first stone" I think that many men have had many lovers and I think many women lie. The girls here on LS seem to be pretty honest but if you met a woman say in a club or elsewhere, 90% would never tell you the truth.

 

Bubbles

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You are ABSOLUTELY correct Bubbles!!!!!!!

 

I admit to my first.

I admit to my marriage.

I admit to my long term relationship.

EVERY GUY THEREAFTER.....is my FOURTH!

 

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

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I've located the hazmut suit........I'm on my way! What's the address again?

 

Woo Hoo! I knew you guys would find that kinky! Sorta like Darth Vader meets Chewbacca!

 

...Wait a minute? Didn't they already do that spin-off on the Playboy Channel?

 

Bubbles and Yogi; I absolutely LOVE your sense of humor. Sometimes it's the best medicine. ;) And feel free at any time to poke fun at me (a.k.a: "The Church Lady"). I can absolutely take it, and even enjoy it myself when I'm feeling down!

 

...Gotta watch out for the come-backs, though! ;)

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I totally agree, I will tell that I am divorced and that I am the mother of two gorgeous children and anything else? What business is it of theirs? Who needs to know? Why do they need to know? What I do in the bedroom is my business not for anyone else.

 

With the exception of yogi here........everyone on Love Shack knows that after Fridays post I am hot on his trail. I think I need to test his theory for ALL the women here on Love Shack.......don't you agree?

 

C'mon yogi......I'm beginning to think you are all talk and no action. You took an article from MAXIM magazine or something didn't you. Tee, hee, hee, hee :love:

 

Bubbles

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Well, I certainly hope that yogi knows that all my bantering is in good fun. I am already spoken for - although I could be lent out for a night.........LMAO

 

Bubbles

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