lost09 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 So I'm more confused than I've ever been in my life. We're 25, in a 5 year relationship, living togeather 2 of those 5 years ( got a place after college). I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship, but the thought of breakig up with her kills me - yet I've still got that voice in my head that say, just end it - no more waisting time. Anyway I almost tried to end it by suggesting basically that this may not be working out. I couldn't handle seeing her cry, and quickly changed my attitude to, "well let's work this out". The biggest thing on my mind is, I don't think I want to get married for another 7-10 years at least. But it would be ashame to just waist 5 years here. I'm not even sure if I should marry this girl anyway. So if there is no marriage in the future, it should just end right? I still care about her so it's incredibly hard not to hurt her, but I still feel like this needs to end. Any advice on how to stay strong and listen to my gut instead of just being Affriad to hurt her? Link to post Share on other sites
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