Author Island Girl Posted September 19, 2009 Author Share Posted September 19, 2009 IG, I gotta give you props. Your love seems so pure and true. After reading this post, I felt as if I have just read an excerpt from a novel. Keep hanging tough, because your love is just not an "everyday" kind of love. Thank you for the reminder that it isn't just in my head. This is what I tell myself these long days. That is is something not easily found and should not be discarded carelessly for there is no finding this a second time. This is the reason I hold on and keep fighting the fight. Link to post Share on other sites
oasis Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 This is the reason I hold on and keep fighting the fight. I admire your will and your strength. It is unparalled to anyone that I know, as most people would have probably chucked it. But it is a testament to your character and your commitment. So I doubt that you are doing this, "just for the fun of it". So keep believing in yourself and your love for each other. Stay strong. Link to post Share on other sites
Bearandsue Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 So he called. He is still feeling miserable obviously. He said, "I'm tell you da truth honey, I'm not feel good right now. Not at all." So I kept the conversation about going to the doctor and dentist tomorrow and how much that is going to be and when he is going to go to each, etc. I stayed really calm and loving but was more about just empathizing and telling him that everything will be okay, he's going to get help tomorrow, and he WILL feel better. Then he says really quietly, "You know why I'm madda you?" "No. Why are you mad at me?" Again - really quiet and husky with a loooong pause, "Missing you. Making love to you. Holding you in my arms so tight." Awwww right? He has done this at times. Thrown a tantrum like a small child and shut down on me - it happened the day before I left there when we got married. At that point we didn't know when we'd see each other again but thought it may be a few months...that was 3 years ago. So he is feeling very low, and his appearance is something he is worried about because we touched on that too. My love. My sweet gentle man. I just love him - and now had the chance to tell him that I love HIM and he is not replaceable - that when we said our vows we said through anything and everything forever - sickness and health, etc. and that I didn't just say "as long as you still look like a god". Of course I told him that he should never say things like he did. And that it hurt me and I cried. And he said he knew he was wrong and he is so very sorry about doing that at all. Ugh. I feel soooooooooo much better. The fight with immigration is still on. We still are headed towards eternity together and I can breathe again. AWWWW I knew that would happen... When one person falls apart in an LDR the other has to be strong. Your guy is so lucky to have you IG. Glad things are better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Island Girl Posted September 20, 2009 Author Share Posted September 20, 2009 AWWWW I knew that would happen... When one person falls apart in an LDR the other has to be strong. Your guy is so lucky to have you IG. Glad things are better. Yes that's true. I just don't know that I have ever been the one to fall apart. He really doesn't either so I suppose that is why it threw me so badly. Mostly it is like I am strong and I have to be because he is and stays dedicated. And he is strong and has to be because I am and stay dedicated. So that little idea of someone faltering is just a shock - or it was. I'm glad YOU knew it'd all be fine Bearandsue! I'll have to figure out how to put that into my head next time (I think it was rattling around in a dark corner LOL). Oh but hopefully there IS no next time! Right now I am giving out all the LS bunnies you guys can handle! :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: You just would not believe how relieved I feel. Whew. Link to post Share on other sites
KikiW Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 So what's the immigration status IG? A few months ago things had been moving along - are they stalled again? When is the next upcoming "Immigration Wrangling"? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Island Girl Posted September 20, 2009 Author Share Posted September 20, 2009 So what's the immigration status IG? A few months ago things had been moving along - are they stalled again? When is the next upcoming "Immigration Wrangling"? Basically - the paperwork it takes so frickin' long to get is the file from when he was here before. THAT takes me a year or more to get through "proper channels". That Federal Department was spot audited and showed delayed requests some of which were 20 years old. The embassy completed his interview - and to do so they have copies of the paperwork from when he was here that they obtained internally. Well, they are requesting copies of this from me. So I contacted a Senator's office who seemed to understand the ludicrous situation - and contacted the embassy. So I waited to here something. The reply had a letter attached form the embassy that was just a regurgitation of the same thing they told me. - They are waiting for the copies of his immigration file from when he was here before. So I wrote the Senator back telling him that the paperwork takes a year or more to get - and they HAVE a copy already even though it didn't come from ME it is the same paperwork. So now we wait...again...to hear something else. Hopefully it will not be the same thing repeated again. UGH! Link to post Share on other sites
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