alaman19 Posted November 25, 2003 Share Posted November 25, 2003 OK...some of you know who I am and have heard me mention this girl that I really like..well I'm starting to think she may like me as well she stands real close to me..the other day she was almost leaning up against me but real lightly..also she'll look me in the eyes when I talk to her and I do the same with her..she smiles at when I say hello and laughs at what I say...she's called me on the phone before and always asks me what am i doing..I usually respond with some kinda witty remark to make her laugh.. But basically here is the deal do you guys think I should go right up to her next time I see her and ask her out..If so any suggestions on how to ask..I know I gotta be myself, don't stutter and be confident but I gotta word it right as well thats the problem..I thought about asking her over the phone but I thought it would be better face to face..what do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
LauraD Posted November 27, 2003 Share Posted November 27, 2003 Why don't you put less pressure on yourself and casually mention to her on the phone or in person that you'd like to go out to eat with her sometime, go to the basketball game, go to the museum, see a concert you thought sounded good, go bowling.....the activities and the ways to ask are endless. Really, most girls really appreciate a genuine and casual style in a guy. If a guy seems confident enough in himself to go out of his way to suggest an outing, that is quite attractive. Also, if you don't think of it so much as a "date," which has more of a nerve-racking connotation, you will probably fare better in your delivery of the words. Once you go out, you can get to know her a little more. Then, the next times you spend together will flow more naturally and by that time, you may be comfortable enough to ask her to be your girlfriend. Good luck now Link to post Share on other sites
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