sfsassy Posted September 22, 2009 Share Posted September 22, 2009 Hi Everyone: So I just started dating this new guy. The chemistry seems intense, though all we have done is kiss. He also has a steady career, and seems like he knows himself. He is a bit older than me, but couldn't be my father or aything like that. Ive had some wishy washy experiences in the last few years, so it's nice to be talking to a somewhat sane guy who seems to like me so much. (And I really like him too.) I havent told him of my past bad experiences, so I dont think he is feeding me lines or anything. However, it is feeling like a bit much for so soon. He wants to talk to me constantly it seems. Also he is VERY flirtateous. Which I like on some level, but I tend to be cautious at first. I'm wondering if it is my own baggage or overthinking though. My last big ex was forever talking to me at the begining, but the ending wasn't pretty (on both sides.) On the other hand, the new guy isn't asking me really intrusive questions. We just talk about whatever. He also just seems to want to see me happy, and I feel like I'm more of the leader as opposed to my last long term boyfriend. (who was incidently younger than me.) I jjust wanted opinions, especially from guys on how normal this seems, and if you have any advice. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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