Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 since 60 year old sex has been topic... he is most amazing lover I have ever had... knows my body more than I do myself... he has stamina of a 20 year old, the body of a fitness buff 30 year old, and his very words make me melt... last adventure he blindfolded me and took me to his guest house at his and his wifes home...for a hot evening together until about 3am... obviously he has no barriers...why take me to his personal home...and after that time, laying in bed he kisses me and says "see dreams do come true..." Link to post Share on other sites
Athena Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 This is why so many think you are in need of therapy --- she doesn't have to acknowledge you, she doesn't have to befriend you, she doesn't have to talk to you. She is woman enough to NOT seek you out. She isn't involved with you. HER HUSBAND is. Who says she isn't supporting him in having a relationship with all his kids? Because she isn't opening HER HOME to all his illegitimate kids? She doesn't have to. She is turning her back while he takes the family money to continue to pay for nannies for you, which she doesn't have to. QUIT focusing ON HER. now where's the clapping hands emoticon?.... Link to post Share on other sites
Athena Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 since 60 year old sex has been topic... he is most amazing lover I have ever had... knows my body more than I do myself... he has stamina of a 20 year old, the body of a fitness buff 30 year old, and his very words make me melt... last adventure he blindfolded me and took me to his guest house at his and his wifes home...for a hot evening together until about 3am... obviously he has no barriers...why take me to his personal home...and after that time, laying in bed he kisses me and says "see dreams do come true..." I have no doubt that an experienced lover in his 60's is miles better than a young pre-ejaculatory twenty something year old! How old are you? Are you 40 yet? Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 R-i-g-h-t... and yet you didn't say no, now did ya? Now you have a fine mess on your hands. Exactly. You had control over your mouth, the thing that says NO. You had control over your front door, DON'T OPEN IT. And you had control of birth control, USE IT. Then you wouldn't be harassing a woman who is trying to live her life without you constantly calling her about your mess. Where's the dang boxing!????????? Link to post Share on other sites
Athena Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 obviously he has no barriers...why take me to his personal home...and after that time, laying in bed he kisses me and says "see dreams do come true..." oooooh -- did you ask him to take you to his personal home? ouch. Is that why he said see dreams come true? You wished he'd take you there? You poor poor thing Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 since 60 year old sex has been topic... he is most amazing lover I have ever had... knows my body more than I do myself... he has stamina of a 20 year old, the body of a fitness buff 30 year old, and his very words make me melt... last adventure he blindfolded me and took me to his guest house at his and his wifes home...for a hot evening together until about 3am... obviously he has no barriers...why take me to his personal home...and after that time, laying in bed he kisses me and says "see dreams do come true..." If you are so much a woman, why go into another woman's home and defile it? What was the need? The purpose? I think it's cause you want to be her. You want her life, and she won't step aside and let you just walk in. Twisted, truly twisted. Your kids are going to be in serious trouble unless you get some real help. Link to post Share on other sites
EarthGirl Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I have seen photos of his wife on internet...she is very attractive for her age...she isnt much older than my mother. I look like a younger version of her... The only thing I have to say about her that isnt positive is she isnt woman enough to seek out the truth and speak to me directly...instead she just complains to him... and she wont accept fact that her and I will forever be bonded through our children having same father...we should do what is best for our children and man we both (if she still loves him) love and allow him our support have full relationship with all his children together. Did you ever consider that maybe the reason she does not talk directly to you is because she does not believe having it out with you is the answer to anything? IF she does want her husband for herself only, I would think she would want him to CHOOSE her, not to win him as a prize in some knock down drag out cat fight with you..Cause you know what that is not the REAL measure of who is really the "winner". And did you ever consider that you have hurt her tremendously by trying to diminish her (I realize you are only fighting for your own survival and I am sorry : ( ) in the eyes of the man SHE loves and in front of others and you have humiliated her? AND...MOST of all, did you ever consider that she knows that if she really has to she can show you just what she really means to him, but she doesn't actually want to hurt YOU. You seem like a very damaged individual and I don't mean that as an insult, I am one of those too, in the end it will make us all the more special. But you know I would imagine if a person was in her position...she has probably been hurt tremendously by all his affairs including the one with you and yet he always comes back to her perhaps not just because of assets...So perhaps she has been on both sides of the fence ....she knows she can hurt you if she chose to, but she has been there so many times, even though a part of her may hate you for what you have done with her H, she can't bear to go out of her way to hurt such a soul that is only crying for help. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I tried to go no contact with him at one time when I thought I needed him all to myself... but quickly realized it isnt about all or nothing...thats why the name. Yes it should be all or nothing when children are involved.. I am at total comfort with him still being married. Will your kids be when they get old enough to understand the situation? why daddy's not at home 24/7 like there other friends dads? No one knows what will happen in a year, 5 , 10, 20 years... I'll take a guess your kids will grow up and resent you for putting them into this abnormal situation in the 1st place! QUOTE] Now I remember why I don't come into the OW threads that often to much selfishness its overwhelming to me OK go ahead flame me I know I just don't understand the deepness of your everlasting love for each other blah blah... Poor kids thats all I have to say.. PS.. before you label me as being on any high horse I don't care about OW MM situations as much IF there were no kiddies involved but this just takes the cake for me! Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 I have no doubt that an experienced lover in his 60's is miles better than a young pre-ejaculatory twenty something year old! How old are you? Are you 40 yet? 35 later this year Link to post Share on other sites
GreenBamboo Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 This is why so many think you are in need of therapy --- she doesn't have to acknowledge you, she doesn't have to befriend you, she doesn't have to talk to you. She is woman enough to NOT seek you out. She isn't involved with you. HER HUSBAND is. Who says she isn't supporting him in having a relationship with all his kids? Because she isn't opening HER HOME to all his illegitimate kids? She doesn't have to. She is turning her back while he takes the family money to continue to pay for nannies for you, which she doesn't have to. QUIT focusing ON HER. Another possibility: the W may not have a say how the MM spends HIS money (not family money), just as who and when the MM choose to have sex with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 Exactly. You had control over your mouth, the thing that says NO. You had control over your front door, DON'T OPEN IT. And you had control of birth control, USE IT. Then you wouldn't be harassing a woman who is trying to live her life without you constantly calling her about your mess. Where's the dang boxing!????????? I did use birth control for 1st 2... pills, then shot, last one i got pregnant only 5 months after giving birth and was still breast feeding and had not had a period...he doesnt believe in condoms Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 since 60 year old sex has been topic... he is most amazing lover I have ever had... knows my body more than I do myself... he has stamina of a 20 year old, the body of a fitness buff 30 year old, and his very words make me melt... last adventure he blindfolded me and took me to his guest house at his and his wifes home...for a hot evening together until about 3am... obviously he has no barriers...why take me to his personal home...and after that time, laying in bed he kisses me and says "see dreams do come true..." OMG lmao... sorry this made me laugh so running blanelty behind his wifes back on the same property to mate with your "other women" is suppose to be fulfilling her dreams? oh boy! I must have messed up dreams cause thats never been an aspiration for me sorry don't mean to burst you bubble Hun. Please get some counseling quick you and more importantly you KIDS deserve so much better then to be this guys side dish! He doesn't love you or his KIDS if he did he would leave the marriage and do the right thing by them witch he ISN'T GOING TO EVER DO! Why should he hes getting his cake and eating it to hes got the free ride so to speak LOL.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 If you are so much a woman, why go into another woman's home and defile it? What was the need? The purpose? I think it's cause you want to be her. You want her life, and she won't step aside and let you just walk in. Twisted, truly twisted. Your kids are going to be in serious trouble unless you get some real help. I never knew we were going there....he had me blindfolded and laying back in the back seat of his bentley. Told me to be quite, as he pulled up to guard gate... it wasnt until after we were there I knew where we were. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 Did you ever consider that maybe the reason she does not talk directly to you is because she does not believe having it out with you is the answer to anything? IF she does want her husband for herself only, I would think she would want him to CHOOSE her, not to win him as a prize in some knock down drag out cat fight with you..Cause you know what that is not the REAL measure of who is really the "winner". And did you ever consider that you have hurt her tremendously by trying to diminish her (I realize you are only fighting for your own survival and I am sorry : ( ) in the eyes of the man SHE loves and in front of others and you have humiliated her? AND...MOST of all, did you ever consider that she knows that if she really has to she can show you just what she really means to him, but she doesn't actually want to hurt YOU. You seem like a very damaged individual and I don't mean that as an insult, I am one of those too, in the end it will make us all the more special. But you know I would imagine if a person was in her position...she has probably been hurt tremendously by all his affairs including the one with you and yet he always comes back to her perhaps not just because of assets...So perhaps she has been on both sides of the fence ....she knows she can hurt you if she chose to, but she has been there so many times, even though a part of her may hate you for what you have done with her H, she can't bear to go out of her way to hurt such a soul that is only crying for help. I just want what is right for all children and to be able to be together and with their father at same time...I dont care if they fall in love with his wife they can call her step-mom whatever as long as she is good to them... I just want him to be father to them he is to his adult children.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 I tried to go no contact with him at one time when I thought I needed him all to myself... but quickly realized it isnt about all or nothing...thats why the name. Yes it should be all or nothing when children are involved.. I am at total comfort with him still being married. Will your kids be when they get old enough to understand the situation? why daddy's not at home 24/7 like there other friends dads? No one knows what will happen in a year, 5 , 10, 20 years... I'll take a guess your kids will grow up and resent you for putting them into this abnormal situation in the 1st place! QUOTE] Now I remember why I don't come into the OW threads that often to much selfishness its overwhelming to me OK go ahead flame me I know I just don't understand the deepness of your everlasting love for each other blah blah... Poor kids thats all I have to say.. PS.. before you label me as being on any high horse I don't care about OW MM situations as much IF there were no kiddies involved but this just takes the cake for me! so, what in your almighty opinion is best for these 3 young children of a billionaire father???? Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I never knew we were going there....he had me blindfolded and laying back in the back seat of his bentley. Told me to be quite, as he pulled up to guard gate... it wasnt until after we were there I knew where we were. You are unreal. "He told me this, he told me that." And like a person without a functioning brain stem or free will you listened and obeyed. Can anybody say THERAPY any louder than posters have already said it. Lord have mercy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 OMG lmao... sorry this made me laugh so running blanelty behind his wifes back on the same property to mate with your "other women" is suppose to be fulfilling her dreams? oh boy! I must have messed up dreams cause thats never been an aspiration for me sorry don't mean to burst you bubble Hun. Please get some counseling quick you and more importantly you KIDS deserve so much better then to be this guys side dish! He doesn't love you or his KIDS if he did he would leave the marriage and do the right thing by them witch he ISN'T GOING TO EVER DO! Why should he hes getting his cake and eating it to hes got the free ride so to speak LOL.. I dont know what he meant by the dream comment??? It wasnt a dream of mine....maybe he was referring to himself? Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 so, what in your almighty opinion is best for these 3 young children of a billionaire father???? Their father seems to be the least of their problems. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 Their father seems to be the least of their problems. what do you recommend is best life for these children whose mother is home for them every night and their father is a lying mm who thinks at his availability we should snap to it Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 This is why so many think you are in need of therapy --- she doesn't have to acknowledge you, she doesn't have to befriend you, she doesn't have to talk to you. She is woman enough to NOT seek you out. She isn't involved with you. HER HUSBAND is. Who says she isn't supporting him in having a relationship with all his kids? Because she isn't opening HER HOME to all his illegitimate kids? She doesn't have to. She is turning her back while he takes the family money to continue to pay for nannies for you, which she doesn't have to. QUIT focusing ON HER. Isn't it amazing?! I can't believe she actually thinks the wife should acknowledge her and that they will forever be connected? The wife is not connected to you and your kids. Get over her already. You really do need to get help. You seem to care more about the MM's wife than you do him. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Then get out of his life. You hire a lawyer, threaten to go public if he bothers you again. GET THERAPY. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 what do you recommend is best life for these children whose mother is home for them every night and their father is a lying mm who thinks at his availability we should snap to it That's their mother's fault, since she has been snapping when ever he wants her to. Grow a backbone or some brass ones or stop complaining about a situation you not only help set up, but kept going by having more children by this so-called unworthy father. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 Then get out of his life. You hire a lawyer, threaten to go public if he bothers you again. GET THERAPY. Have an attorney...but he pays support and so I cant file if he is doing what he is suppose to do...and much more... I have threatened to boycott ILFC...if he didnt stop and just let me go... Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Did you ever consider that maybe the reason she does not talk directly to you is because she does not believe having it out with you is the answer to anything? IF she does want her husband for herself only, I would think she would want him to CHOOSE her, not to win him as a prize in some knock down drag out cat fight with you..Cause you know what that is not the REAL measure of who is really the "winner". And did you ever consider that you have hurt her tremendously by trying to diminish her (I realize you are only fighting for your own survival and I am sorry : ( ) in the eyes of the man SHE loves and in front of others and you have humiliated her? AND...MOST of all, did you ever consider that she knows that if she really has to she can show you just what she really means to him, but she doesn't actually want to hurt YOU. You seem like a very damaged individual and I don't mean that as an insult, I am one of those too, in the end it will make us all the more special. But you know I would imagine if a person was in her position...she has probably been hurt tremendously by all his affairs including the one with you and yet he always comes back to her perhaps not just because of assets...So perhaps she has been on both sides of the fence ....she knows she can hurt you if she chose to, but she has been there so many times, even though a part of her may hate you for what you have done with her H, she can't bear to go out of her way to hurt such a soul that is only crying for help. I agree with this. Bascially, his wife has class and he knows it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nocontact2 Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 I agree with this. Bascially, his wife has class and he knows it. Then let him stay faithful to his classy wife..fyi I never said she wasnt classy...just as stupid as I am for staying with a man that lies and cheats Link to post Share on other sites
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