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confused about girlfriend not talking to me


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Im having a problem with my girlfriend. we met in nov of '02 and we just connected like that. she is so sweet and caring, ther are a few issues we have with each other tho, she doesnt like the fact that i smoke, and i have cut back, i dont smoke around her, i use mouth wash, gum, mints, colone so she doesnt smell the smoke. my issue is she wont let me know whats going on with her. Im not asking for a novel about it just the cliffs notes or even a "I dont want to talk about it right now" she just says "nothings wrong"

 

we broke up in june of '03. accually, she stopped talking to me, didnt return my phone calls, and her mom called me to break it off. for 5 months it was like that. then in nov she called me. we went to a resurant and talked. we ended up getting back together and things wher back to "normal" for a few weeks then she started to not return my calls. I would talked to her at her work and she would make plans to go out then I wouldnt hear from her and would wind up sitting a home waiting. she told me not to call her house because her mom hadnt made up her mnd about me yet. She asked me not to come by her house either.

 

my question is, is there a reasonable answer for her behavior, or am i reading too much into it? any answer would be very appreciated

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Hi,

 

Sounds to me like there may be a problem between her and her mother. Perhaps her mother is presuring her about your relationship with her daughter.

 

Do you get on well with the mother? I'm not saying that thats the problem, but from experience I did not get on with a girls father and a similar thing happened to me.

 

Have you confronted her about it?

 

Chris

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