Leia Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Exactly! I love women very much but finding one that gets me is even better. Well put Leia. I enjoy men but don't wanna make one a priority unless we have the same values. Anyway, it's nice to see people on this board who reflect goodness. I know the both of you will find good people to be with because of your values. Thanks, loveslife. I'm sure you'll find a great partner for yourself too Link to post Share on other sites
loveslife Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Thanks, loveslife. I'm sure you'll find a great partner for yourself too Thanks Leia. Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I don’t even know how I got suckered into this thread. Everyone’s definition of a "bad boy" is different here. You don’t have to be a jerk and pretend your a bad boy or whatever. You don’t have to be a serial murderer either. You can be an intelligent, respectful, non-player, god fearing guy, driven by ambition and a wild side with some pride. What most are describing here as a "bad boy" are simply poser player wannabee idiots. I don’t think anyone likes those types. The "nice guy" is the guy who never commands respect, never standsup for anything in his life, always plays it safe, runs away from a fight, and gets run over and used by most people. Women don’t get this, but men have a pecking order…. and when it comes to competition (sports, work, chasing women) there is a competition amongst men. Ever since the Romans this has been documented and even much earlier. The weak/nice guys are on the bottom it’s as simple as that. You don’t have to be a muscled up fighter with knife and bullet scars on your body to be a bad boy, but it probably doesn’t hurt? Girls like adventure, bravery, excitement, randomness, they like guys with skills, bow hunting skills, nunchuck skills… nice guys are generally boring, cant do sh*t for themselves and call the nearest cop or mommy to help them. This is a simple concept people. Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 nice guys are generally boring, cant do sh*t for themselves and call the nearest cop or mommy to help them. This is a simple concept people. :lmao: Wherever do you know these "nice" guys?! I'm glad the ones I know can handle any situation by themselves, and with class too Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 badboys can be nice too. they can be very charismatic, charming, classy... women invented this badboy term, guys don't even talk like that. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 charismatic, charming, classyI get this picture of used car and timeshare salesmen in my mind Link to post Share on other sites
C-i-C-u Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I am going to say something else, my contribution more to this thread. It takes a bigger man to walk away from a fight then it takes to get into one. Most of those "badboys" who start fights are depending on picking someone whose at least six inches shorter and someone they "hope" doesn't know how to fight because most badboys don't know how to fight. If they fought someone with experience in boxing, mauy thai, wrestling, you can bet that badboy is going to get his a ss kicked. But don't do it. There are far too many toughguys who only know how to start a fight but don't know how to fight and the LAST thing they want is to get into a fight especially if they are going to get beat up. So if you got into a fight with one of these guys it would be silly just to watch. Because he doesn't know how to fight and is dependent on brute strength. And you don't know how to fight but can take hits. The hitting exchange would make the fight very boring and all what it would take is one lucky punch to the right part in the face(chin) and boom the other person would go down KO'd. But if you knew how to fight, you can just play with him like a cat does with a mouse. And embarrass him, then when he least suspects it throw a punch that will devastate him. Remember though, it takes a bigger man to just walk away. There really is no reason to fight, pussy aint all that great. Remember guys. You have sex with a good looking women to say that you've had sex with her, you don't want to be the idiot that marries her. And theres enough good looking women in Red light districts around the world that you don't have to sacrifice a bloody nose or bruised body. Theres enough p ussy for all of us, if that is what you are all looking for. Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 C-i-C-u. Say your with your girl and some other dude is grabbing her and disrespecting her. You grab your ba*ls and run? What if your walking down the street and a few wannabee toughguys are bothering some poor girl and pushing her around. You step in and knock the dude out... or "walk away" because its none of your business? Whats this "boxing" you speak of? You mean to tell me that someone who is a boxer and has a badass groundgame fighter will kick the **** out of someone who has never trained? Captain obvious over here. Its also spelled muay thai. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hkizzle Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 Speaking of all this fighting. I once saw two guys get into a confrontation, and one guy got his cellphone out and said: "hey you touch me and I'm going to call all my bros on you" .........and then the other guy grabbed his phone, threw it away and then proceeded to beat the crap out of him. Moral of the story? Pick the fights you can win, and don't pretend to be tough. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 I get this picture of used car and timeshare salesmen in my mind A used car or timeshare salesman would be sleazy and conniving. The terms charismatic, charming, and classy totally do not conjure up those images. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 A used car or timeshare salesman would be sleazy and conniving. The terms charismatic, charming, and classy totally do not conjure up those images. Which is all the things they are until they have your money. Perception is key. The classic con man (or woman) Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Which is all the things they are until they have your money. Perception is key. The classic con man (or woman) I guess I am one of those lucky ones. I can spot them from a mile away before they get my money. Perhaps it comes from being the charming manipulator in my past life, eh carhill? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 ah, ha, that was you! I plead temporary insanity while married, you honor Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 C-i-C-u. Say your with your girl and some other dude is grabbing her and disrespecting her. You grab your ba*ls and run? What if your walking down the street and a few wannabee toughguys are bothering some poor girl and pushing her around. You step in and knock the dude out... or "walk away" because its none of your business? You only fight when there are no other options (meaning when you have to defend yourself or the one you love). Of course if a guy were to disrespect my guy he is asking for it, but you can still get your point across to him and put the fear of Gawd in him without having to resort to physical violence. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 ah, ha, that was you! I plead temporary insanity while married, you honor :lmao: You know for all of this squawking about women liking the "bad boys" the same thing could be said about men. There ARE the female versions as well. And men fall for them as well. Find any bad boy and you can find a female on the flip side to match. Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 You only fight when there are no other options (meaning when you have to defend yourself or the one you love). Of course if a guy were to disrespect my guy he is asking for it, but you can still get your point across to him and put the fear of Gawd in him without having to resort to physical violence. I agree. That was actually my point, you break someone’s will and humiliate them if need be without physical fighting but if a fight is glooming you don’t run and hide. Starting fights for no reason is dumb, I agree. But we all know there are those situations where everyone in the room just wishes someone would step in and takes care of the problem. There are those times where you cant just walk away from a fight. Men have been solving their issues with fighting since caveman days, it’s just a fact. When all else fails 2 dudes go and duke it out between one another. Watch any sport, football, hockey, basketball, etc… you see fights all the time and people love it. When you have a problem you don’t challenge someone to a game of ping pong to show your dominance. I can’t understand grown man who say they have never been in a real fight. Really? I mean you never wanted to hit someone for whatever reason or hit them back if they started it? Sure you wanted too but why didn’t you? Scared of getting in trouble? Scared of getting hurt? Different people have different perspectives. If a fight is inevitable, my body will heal in time but if I run my pride never will. Humiliating someone and having them run from you is much more rewarding then beating them up physically anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
C-i-C-u Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 C-i-C-u. Say your with your girl and some other dude is grabbing her and disrespecting her. You grab your ba*ls and run? What if your walking down the street and a few wannabee toughguys are bothering some poor girl and pushing her around. You step in and knock the dude out... or "walk away" because its none of your business? Whats this "boxing" you speak of? You mean to tell me that someone who is a boxer and has a badass groundgame fighter will kick the **** out of someone who has never trained? Captain obvious over here. Its also spelled muay thai. That is different captain moron. If someone touches your girl the wrong way, you can fight. But my point was that most toughguys or badboys are really sissies who can't fight and won't pick any fight with a guy who can beat them up. They will bark real bad, but their bite doesn't hurt at all. So I am saying it isn't worth fighting these guys because they are too easy to beat up regardless if they are 6 foot 5 or 5 foot 7. Toughguys have no substance. And you can beat them up, for all those "nice guys" here all you have to do is take a self defense class. And remember to bite not bark. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Find any bad boy and you can find a female on the flip side to match. Yeah, and ever time I think of one, I snap the rubberband to keep me on topic like the nice guy I am Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 That is different captain moron. If someone touches your girl the wrong way, you can fight. But my point was that most toughguys or badboys are really sissies who can't fight and won't pick any fight with a guy who can beat them up. They will bark real bad, but their bite doesn't hurt at all. So I am saying it isn't worth fighting these guys because they are too easy to beat up regardless if they are 6 foot 5 or 5 foot 7. Toughguys have no substance. And you can beat them up, for all those "nice guys" here all you have to do is take a self defense class. And remember to bite not bark. wow a self defense class. why haven't i thought of that? where do i sign up for such a class? is it a hard? will the instructor give us water breaks? if its more than an hour i don't think i can hack it. Link to post Share on other sites
C-i-C-u Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 wow a self defense class. why haven't i thought of that? where do i sign up for such a class? is it a hard? will the instructor give us water breaks? if its more than an hour i don't think i can hack it. oh, an internet toughguy. You should sign up for a self defense class for little kids, because thats what you are. A little kid, who'd probably get his ass kicked by the nerdy kid learning martial arts. Link to post Share on other sites
fatamus Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 oh, an internet toughguy. You should sign up for a self defense class for little kids, because thats what you are. A little kid, who'd probably get his ass kicked by the nerdy kid learning martial arts. He wasn't nerdy he was almost 13 and took Karate for 3 weeks, that's like black belt level. You are right, i get my butt kicked all the time in real life. Link to post Share on other sites
C-i-C-u Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 He wasn't nerdy he was almost 13 and took Karate for 3 weeks, that's like black belt level. You are right, i get my butt kicked all the time in real life. and by women too. thats why you are mad. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 oh, an internet toughguy. You should sign up for a self defense class for little kids, because thats what you are. A little kid, who'd probably get his ass kicked by the nerdy kid learning martial arts. Pot meet Kettle. Link to post Share on other sites
loveslife Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Pot meet Kettle. Do we need to separate them, ya think? Link to post Share on other sites
Devil Dog Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 Tell me about it, I got dumped for some whiskey tango jack*ss. Link to post Share on other sites
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