Ruthieo10 Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 Well here is my story. . . I meet the guy while I was out of town, We really didn't say that much to each other. Well my last night there right before I went to bed he runs out to me and askes me for my number. I gave it to him. We have been talking for about a month now and things are going really good. He calls me every night and we talk for about 2 hours every night. He told me that about two years ago he got out of a relationship and told himself that he didn't really want to date anyone until he knew it was going to be the person that he was going to spend the rest of his life with. Now he is coming here the 28th of Nov. and He told me on the phone that he wanted to asks me to be his girlfriend and all this stuff. I am okay with that and I feel the same way towards him. The only thing I am nervous about is that when he sees me he won't feel the same way. Just because I don't not have the best body and I am not the prettiest person to look at. Should I even be worried since he already told me all that stuff about the way he feels? I really would like someone's input Thanx Link to post Share on other sites
Girlinterrupted Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 Sweety he has already seen you, right before you going to bed so I take you were'nt all spiffed up either. I wouldn't worry about that and let me tell you that confidence in it self is a very sexy thing so just be confident when he comes. Do not let him know of your insecurity, he obviously liked the way you looked when he ran out to you for your number so don't worry. Do something for your self before he comes, get your hair & nails done, just something to boost your esteem. I'm sure it'll be just fine. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Callisto Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 He's seen you and knows what you look like. Besides it shouldn't matter. He enjoys talking to you. That's what's most important. I am sure you look just fine. Relax! Link to post Share on other sites
Romeo Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 yeah. it's not that important if he saw you already. but it's always a good idea to present the best of yourself to your date, especially the first few times. we guys see the effort you put in and we do appreciate it, it has nothing to do with us being shallow or superficial. Link to post Share on other sites
DJ-TK Posted November 27, 2003 Share Posted November 27, 2003 I agree with the other posts... Just so you know, being sexy is not all about look and confidence, it's also about perspnality... He could have find you sexy just from talking to you if you ask me... this whole sexual thing has many factors although most of us think it is all about appearence... This is also why many say the best sex you have is with you BF/GF... because of the love and all.... so anyway, if he likes your personality, he would like your body too.. Try to look the best you can just to feel better with yourself.. he will see the effort you put in and appreciate it (as romeo said).... Link to post Share on other sites
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