hrtbrokn Posted November 27, 2003 Share Posted November 27, 2003 Hello, i am new to this board and really need some advice. I have been dating this girl for 3 years and we have a kid together. Anyway on my way home from work about 3 or 4 weeks ago i called her to see what we were going to do and she said she wanted to to break things off, at first i thought she was joking but she wasnt. Anyway she said she needs some time to herself. This totally ripped me apart, we still talk quit often and i ask her if she wants to get back together and sometimes she sounds like she wants to and other times she sounds like she dont. she goes out with her friends all the time and comes back with other guys numbers. that really gets me upset. Right now all she is concerned about is going to parties, i dont know if she is seeing someone else or is looking for someone else. What can i do to get her back...should i keep trying Thanks Jr Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted November 27, 2003 Share Posted November 27, 2003 Stop discussing getting back with her. Keep your conversations very brief. See your child often but have minimal interaction with this lady. Give her some space and time. The ONLY way you will get her back is if you inject some newness and mystery into the relationship. What you need to do is make her wonder what you're up to with your behavior. If you talk to her less frequently and not mention getting back together at all, you will drive her nuts. You will also be showing her that you listen to what she says and you respect her wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hrtbrokn Posted November 27, 2003 Author Share Posted November 27, 2003 Ok, that is kinda what i figured. I just hope i havent already bothered her to much by asking the couple times i did. I wish i understood how women work!!!! things would be so much easier. Thanks Jr Link to post Share on other sites
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