Devil Dog Posted September 27, 2009 Share Posted September 27, 2009 So I've known this girl for a few years, and she's in a few of my classes. She's really cute, intelligent, and has good taste, I talk to her on an almost daily basis, yet everyday, without fail, she tells me she hates me. She's kind of a conservative girl, doesn't have very many guy friends, if any, has dated one guy in the past (that ended kinda bad for her), and never really flirts with anyone. I'm just wanting to know whats going on in her head... Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted September 28, 2009 Share Posted September 28, 2009 She may have the IQ but almost-daily "I hate yous" do not reflect too much emotional intelligence, does it? Other than "hate", who can tell what is going on in her head? -- confusing you with that guy she used to date? -- lumping in ALL men under the same category as that guy she used to date? Most important, though, is how are YOU interpreting her words...and why are you allowing yourself to hear that said to you almost daily? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Devil Dog Posted October 3, 2009 Author Share Posted October 3, 2009 I don't really know what's going on in her head, which is why I posted that here. As for how I'm interpreting her words, I'm taking as some kind of odd way of flirting, we can hold a conversation, but it never seems to stem anything more than that. Although I did snap at her the other day, and I feel kinda bad about it. Damn I'm becoming an efficient typist. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Devil Dog Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 Thank you 145 viewers. I can really use someone's opinion here. Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 So I've known this girl for a few years...whats going on in her head... After a few years, you must have some clue about her. I don't really know, i can only think back to this nasty girl back in school (wow that was decades ago) who 'hated' everyone just to get an reaction from people. Can you give an example of a typical conversation where she said she hates you? And does she do this to anyone else? Just a thought. Link to post Share on other sites
bluegreen12 Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 Why is she telling you that she hates you everyday? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Devil Dog Posted October 11, 2009 Author Share Posted October 11, 2009 Can you give an example of a typical conversation where she said she hates you? And does she do this to anyone else? Just a thought. It's just normal, everyday stuff. And I don't think so... Link to post Share on other sites
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