GorillaTheater Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Got the latest text message "I've decided I am just going to contact your parents about this since you will not discuss this with me like an adult". Jesus, how old is this woman? She's going to to contact your parents, for crying out loud? If I had any doubts about this being immature manipulation on her part, they're gone now. IF she's really pregnant this will sort itself out one way or the other. Stay NC for now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 Jesus, how old is this woman? She's going to to contact your parents, for crying out loud? If I had any doubts about this being immature manipulation on her part, they're gone now. IF she's really pregnant this will sort itself out one way or the other. Stay NC for now. She's 22. And it will be very funny if she does contact my parents because they are PISSED about this situation Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 she is a freak! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 This pretty much seals the deal that it's bullcrap doesn't it? She knows where I work.. It's right by her house.. She could have easily came to my work.. She knows what time I get off.. I find it funny that she hasn't went further than a text and one phone call Link to post Share on other sites
DustySaltus Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Geez Linx, this is one hell of a situation and I'm sorry you have to go through it. I'm telling you the way this is playing out the next card she'll probably try and play is the suicide one. I hope not, but the way things are going I wouldn't be surprised if I were you. Just be aware of that, she wants your attention and is trying to do anything to get it. She's not calling your parents. She's just going down her list of things to try and get a reaction out of you. If you really want to bluff her and your parents are mad about the situation I would have your mother volunteer to go down to the clinic with you. See how that one plays out.... Link to post Share on other sites
ecm Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 She's not calling your parents. She's just going down her list of things to try and get a reaction out of you. If you really want to bluff her and your parents are mad about the situation I would have your mother volunteer to go down to the clinic with you. See how that one plays out.... took the words right out of my mouth! You could have your parents contact HER. Would they do that? A text from your mom or dad that says something like "When are you available to meet at planned parenthood to confirm your pregnancy?" might shut her up... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 Geez Linx, this is one hell of a situation and I'm sorry you have to go through it. I'm telling you the way this is playing out the next card she'll probably try and play is the suicide one. I hope not, but the way things are going I wouldn't be surprised if I were you. Just be aware of that, she wants your attention and is trying to do anything to get it. She's not calling your parents. She's just going down her list of things to try and get a reaction out of you. If you really want to bluff her and your parents are mad about the situation I would have your mother volunteer to go down to the clinic with you. See how that one plays out.... To be honest I'm already expecting the suicide text message. Here is what I planned todo.. If I get a suicide text.. I was going to not respond at all, but call the cops and tell them my ex just texted me and is threatening suicide.. And give them her address... Would that be too harsh? Link to post Share on other sites
DustySaltus Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 took the words right out of my mouth! You could have your parents contact HER. Would they do that? A text from your mom or dad that says something like "When are you available to meet at planned parenthood to confirm your pregnancy?" might shut her up... Or have her just move on to the next things on her list....... Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 To be honest I'm already expecting the suicide text message. Here is what I planned todo.. If I get a suicide text.. I was going to not respond at all, but call the cops and tell them my ex just texted me and is threatening suicide.. And give them her address... Would that be too harsh? No, I think that would be appropriate. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 This pretty much seals the deal that it's bullcrap doesn't it? She knows where I work.. It's right by her house.. She could have easily came to my work.. She knows what time I get off.. I find it funny that she hasn't went further than a text and one phone call Yep, I agree with everyone else who said she was just going down the list of things to see which gets a reaction. I think it would be wonderful if she contacted your parents and they put her in her place . I think everyone's been posting pretty dead on here about her and her crap tactics. LOL@the melodramatic. Agggh isn't there a way to just block her number? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 took the words right out of my mouth! You could have your parents contact HER. Would they do that? A text from your mom or dad that says something like "When are you available to meet at planned parenthood to confirm your pregnancy?" might shut her up... Wow yes that probably would shut her up. But both my parents have texting disabled on their phone... I had to call my dad about some parts for work, told him what she said.. He said HA let her call me... Lol That text is a very good idea. But we'd have to get texting unblocked on one of their phones.. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 No, I think that would be appropriate. I agree whole heartedly. Completely appropriate. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 Yep, I agree with everyone else who said she was just going down the list of things to see which gets a reaction. I think it would be wonderful if she contacted your parents and they put her in her place . I think everyone's been posting pretty dead on here about her and her crap tactics. LOL@the melodramatic. Agggh isn't there a way to just block her number? Yes... But I have to jailbreak my phone.. And I accidentally upgraded to the new version and there is no jailbreak out yet so I can getthe blacklist app.. So I'm SOL for now.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted September 30, 2009 Author Share Posted September 30, 2009 Ok... So I have a new one for you guys... She's doing all these things... Going down the list probing for a reaction... Trying thing after thing.... Here's my question... WHY?? what does she actually think she is going to accomplish by doing this? What does she want out of me? I just don't understand Link to post Share on other sites
DustySaltus Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Forget texting, this isn't a time for texting. Either have them CALL her or you all go over there to clinic together. I mean this is SERIOUS business here. Link to post Share on other sites
DustySaltus Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Ok... So I have a new one for you guys... She's doing all these things... Going down the list probing for a reaction... Trying thing after thing.... Here's my question... WHY?? what does she actually think she is going to accomplish by doing this? What does she want out of me? I just don't understand CONTROL, but she doesn't have it and it is FREAKING her out. Either way once this situation is resolved it's not your problem any more. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Ok... So I have a new one for you guys... She's doing all these things... Going down the list probing for a reaction... Trying thing after thing.... Here's my question... WHY?? what does she actually think she is going to accomplish by doing this? What does she want out of me? I just don't understand A) she wants your attention back. It's completely self centered. She wants you to dote on her and kiss her ass like there is a rose bush there, like you have been doing. B) why is she doing all these things? Because she did all these things before and they are what worked, so she is doing them again wondering why they AREN'T working this time and upping the ante a bit trying to figure out "okay, which button do I push to get response? Hmm..this one isn't working..this one isn't either..okay let's try this one now." She doesn't want to clean her act up, she doesn't want to change and take responsibility for her actions, she wants to be the same manipulative and self centered spoiled child she has been for the last umpteen years and she wants YOU to still make her feel good about herself for it like you were doing. EDIT: It's like when controlling and abusive men lose their ladies, they go ape ****. It isn't because they care so much about the woman, but what the woman provided and can do for them, that they miss and can't stand losing. They never trully cared or appreciated the person, just what the person could do and provide for them. Link to post Share on other sites
ecm Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 Call police: totally appropriate. Save the proof on your phone (I'm guessing it will be in the next 48 hours) so you don't get in trouble for a false call or whatever the heck it's called. Then, she might even get arrested and put in a psych ward. That would be fun. If your parents don't have texting, would either one of them just call her? Would she even answer? This b*tch is like an after school special. (oh- you younger guys/gals might not know what that is- sorry) She is doing it because she is NUTS. If you ever even think about taking her back, I will reach through the screen and backhand you myself. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 Call police: totally appropriate. Save the proof on your phone (I'm guessing it will be in the next 48 hours) so you don't get in trouble for a false call or whatever the heck it's called. Then, she might even get arrested and put in a psych ward. That would be fun. If your parents don't have texting, would either one of them just call her? Would she even answer? This b*tch is like an after school special. (oh- you younger guys/gals might not know what that is- sorry) She is doing it because she is NUTS. If you ever even think about taking her back, I will reach through the screen and backhand you myself. LMAO. Ecm you're hilarious. If she does do something like that as GT and ECM stated; totally appropriate and she will most likely be taken for a psyche evaluation. Even if she's kidding and bluffing it will teach her a lesson she will be sure to not forget too soon about crying wolf. She will have to own up to the consequences of her actions for once EXACTLY what she needs. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted October 1, 2009 Author Share Posted October 1, 2009 This whole thing is just crazy, I mean honestly... Like wow.. Sometimes I can't even believe what's going on here. I feel like I'm in a video game or something... If that makes any sense.. Do feel very good today, was in great spirits today at work, feeling good, feeling happy, taking back my life, it's a nice feeling Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 This whole thing is just crazy, I mean honestly... Like wow.. Sometimes I can't even believe what's going on here. I feel like I'm in a video game or something... If that makes any sense.. Do feel very good today, was in great spirits today at work, feeling good, feeling happy, taking back my life, it's a nice feeling Yeah and you should feel good! You have every reason to feel good, not only that but hopeful and excited about the fact that when you're ready, you'll get to meet an actual lovely young lady who is going to be a lot of fun and joy and love, instead of just a big headache and a constant drama fest. Link to post Share on other sites
ecm Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 and you should feel good. Being a father is a new chapter in your life!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ecm Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I just couldn't help it. xo Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lynx331 Posted October 1, 2009 Author Share Posted October 1, 2009 One more question... If it does escalate to the suicide threat text message... If I call the police... She would then be getting the attention she wants, and then she would know that I have been reading the texts all along.. However.. She would have to answer to her Actions.. And it will also make me look like a huge um.. Jerk for calling the cops on her. I don't want to give her any satisfaction But I also wouldn't want her commitIng suicide either... This is just so dumb.. I can't believe I'm having think about all of these things.. Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted October 1, 2009 Share Posted October 1, 2009 One more question... If it does escalate to the suicide threat text message... If I call the police... She would then be getting the attention she wants, and then she would know that I have been reading the texts all along.. However.. She would have to answer to her Actions.. And it will also make me look like a huge um.. Jerk for calling the cops on her. I don't want to give her any satisfaction But I also wouldn't want her commitIng suicide either... This is just so dumb.. I can't believe I'm having think about all of these things.. A) if she threatens suicide report it. Don't worry about "oh she's getting what she wants" Believe me, what she wants is YOU to text or call or fly over to her house and baby her. What she does not want, the polar OPPOSITE of what she does want is the COPS coming over there and she most CERTAINLY doesn't want to have to take responsibility for her actions. We know that already. B) You are worried about looking like a jerk for calling the police? For real? After everything she's done to YOU, you are worried about wether you look like a jerk for doing what ANYONE in your position RIGHTFULLY, SHOULD do?? Link to post Share on other sites
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