boopsier Posted September 28, 2009 Share Posted September 28, 2009 So to recap.. My ex broke up with me in June... wanted to stay friends. I said no. Still loves me.. but freaked out. NC until July when I tried to email him, he went cold and distant, then he tells me indirectly that he still loves me, he just doesn't understand me right now. No Contact until last week in which he tells me directly that he hasn't figured things out, he still can't explain why he feels the way he does and that it was irresponsible for even engaging in a relationship with him then... and it still is since he cannot explain his inner mapping of his brain to me. (No offense to my ex... but I don't think anyone understands why they do things at times) I send him a letter expressing my feelings, I basically said that I wasn't willing to jump in just yet, but I was willing to start anew. He answers within 2 days... making sure that I know that he read it the night before after having a dream about me and that he was honestly waiting for the letter I sent him. He thanked me for the kind words and that one day soon, we would just hang out and chill on AIM (it was LD). I haven't responded to his email just yet. I know that I will need to become friends with him again and show him that I indeed do get his strange ways... but I still wonder.. am I being led on? Link to post Share on other sites
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