Romance Posted September 28, 2009 Share Posted September 28, 2009 Do you find the day you get home from seeing your SO/the day after to be the hardest? I always thought that those few days right after would be the easiest since you just saw them, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Are you the same way? I haven't felt like this my entire LDR, it's a new feeling..so I was wondering if anyone else felt like this..cause it's a really sad feeling..and I want it to go away..I just got home today. so do you think it'll be gone in a day or two and I'm just re adjusting? Thanks guys. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 Yep. It's that way for me, too, especially if we've spent more than one week together. Forgot to add - yeah, you're probably readjusting, and things will get back to normal soon. Hang in there. Link to post Share on other sites
carvidep Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 YES! So hard!! I met with mine for the first time as a couple in June for a week, and the day I left him sucked soooo much, and I definitely cried a few times during the following few days. Just gotta get back into your own routine. Talking to him helped me a lot. Nothing changes between the two of you except for the geological distance. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovin a scrapper Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 Well first, I dont have a SO. Sorry, I cant stand that term for the woman who I love unconditionally. Its generalizes her and I adore her too much for that. Please take no offense. I have been to see her twice and it was very hard to leave her. Especially the first time that I visited her. However, I had a much more difficult time of it when she came to visit me and she had to leave here. Lots of things reminded me of her being here but as carvidep said, it really helped to get back into my daily routine and talking to her constantly which I do anyway. So it will get better. I never want to forget that feeling of loss though. Having that feeling really proves how much in love with her I really am and it makes me appreciate more what I have and I can apply that when we are together forever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romance Posted September 29, 2009 Author Share Posted September 29, 2009 Thanks you guys. It just didn't seem to make sense! I guess I just get so upset leaving each other now..is because I know I truly love him. Before I never got sad with him leaving or me leaving, but now I definitely do. Plus, we only get to spend friday night(he arrives or i arrive around10 pm) until mid day sunday with each other on the weekends we can be together so it's just rough. But hopefully it will be allll better by tomorrow. Such a bad feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
kittie s. Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 Oh gosh, I know exactly what you mean. I'm dealing with it right now...my sweetie had to leave this morning and I'm just broken into a million pieces. I have been crying off and on all day. Our relationship was turned into a long distance one at the end of last year because of a job situation, so we've been dealing with this for awhile. But it seems like each time we are together is better than the last, and today it hurts worse than it ever has before, except the day he actually had to move away. He takes a piece of me with him each time he goes! It is just good to know that there are others that can understand why we are sad like this right after the "better half" has left. It will get a little easier each day. These relationships can be the strongest, IMO. No one will appreciate the togetherness (when it is time for both to be together) than a couple that has had to endure the distance between them and build their love around that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Romance Posted September 29, 2009 Author Share Posted September 29, 2009 Oh gosh, I know exactly what you mean. I'm dealing with it right now...my sweetie had to leave this morning and I'm just broken into a million pieces. I have been crying off and on all day. Our relationship was turned into a long distance one at the end of last year because of a job situation, so we've been dealing with this for awhile. But it seems like each time we are together is better than the last, and today it hurts worse than it ever has before, except the day he actually had to move away. He takes a piece of me with him each time he goes! It is just good to know that there are others that can understand why we are sad like this right after the "better half" has left. It will get a little easier each day. These relationships can be the strongest, IMO. No one will appreciate the togetherness (when it is time for both to be together) than a couple that has had to endure the distance between them and build their love around that. I do think you're right. You appreciate the person so much more, everything about them. As hard as they are..you really do get attached to the person and realize what your life is like without them. The day they leave and the day after though, they're so hard! I wish they weren't so sad! Link to post Share on other sites
Miad's Princess Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Yes it is hard and it can take a couple of weeks to readjust back. Also the more you see them the harder it gets each time you leave them, something I was told but now have experienced. Link to post Share on other sites
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