firewired Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 Hello all. Glad I came across the site...here's the story. I met this girl on facebook through a friend of mine and we seemed to get along well. We talked off and on through emails and chats for about a year and then it worked out for us to meet. We both traveled and spent the weekend together. We got along great and had a blast and when I was going to give her a kiss she said she didn't want to complicate things since we would be leaving the following day anyway and it wouldn't be leading anywhere. Well I was so caught off guard that I didn't ask why it couldn't lead anywhere...but i can only assume it's the distance. We live many states apart! We had a fun day together the day after that and it wasn't awkward at all so I didn't want to bring it up again. Then we both had to leave....and it was really tough leaving her! I really miss her and kind of want to know if she feels the same. I don't really want to call her feeling like this because I'm feeling so not myself and lonely I know I will come off sounding that way Any advice would be really appreciated Thanks, firewired Link to post Share on other sites
jumi Posted September 30, 2009 Share Posted September 30, 2009 thats cute its a good thing you didn't call her when you dont feel like yourself. the webcam conversations i regret most with my boyfriend were the ones where i was depressed and not myself and feeling way too anxious for any rational reason. but over the months ive learned how to calm myself and keep a level head. so anway... if you want to call her.. which you should, cause she might be hoping you do (never know right?) just have a plan of what you want to say ... you will feel more confident and less lonely/desperate (for want of a better word). just out of curiosity, how far apart are you guys? Link to post Share on other sites
Author firewired Posted October 1, 2009 Author Share Posted October 1, 2009 We are 1600 miles apart...but it goes by quick when you're flying I may give her a call this weekend...by that time I should be caught back up on sleep from the trip and hopefully feeling a little more like myself! Part of me wants to ask her if she would be interested in more than a friendship, but at the same time maybe that's too direct and keeping it to more of a relaxed conversation would be better. I tend to overthink things like that lol...so I guess I'll just see what the conversation brings Thanks Jumi! How far are you and your boyfriend apart? Link to post Share on other sites
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