In love with my best friend.

[Tina Tulip]

I JUST realised that I've fallen for my best friend! We have always shared our deepest secrets and other personal problems. We just love to poke fun at each other. I call him names and we'll chase each other around. The bond has grown stronger with each day.

 

Though all our friends keep telling us that there's a possibility of us becoming a couple, we shrugged off those comments by stating that we are just friends.

 

But lately I've been experiencing this 'inner ache' whenever he's not around. I miss him when I don't see him. We still tease each other but I've never hinted to him that I actually care for him more than a friend does.

 

This is a real tough situation for me. It's so hard to find a best friend like him and I don't want to lose that special relationship. But I also want something more. What's worse, I don't know if he feels the same way.

 

What should I do? Please help! -

[moonspinner]

Hey Tina Tulip, it's cool to hear that someone has fallen in love with another who is available.

 

Is that right?

 

If I were in your shoes, I guess I would take the time to explore my feelings on the situation and take it slow..sounds like you don't want to lose him as a friend.

 

I am not sure as to how to approach him to find out if he is sexually attracted to you...I think you might get a sense if he is or if he isn't. ...I don't know...my best friend told me straight out how he felt about our relationship, so I didn't have to ask...but I kinda suspected how he felt all along.

 

 

 

Lucky you.

[Jessica W.]

Just grab the boy and express your feelings. oh, kissing would be nice. we guys love an assertive, take-charge female.