joel Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 what is MInd Games. the term she is playing Mind Games with you. any examples and what do they do. can u guys give me some examples of Mind Games how can i tell the girl i am seeing is playing Mind Games with me or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 Around about last year, I approached a girl in my class from uni. She reacted positively and had me chasing her for about a month before she told me that she can't "do this" because she has a boyfriend. So I guess a mind game is when a girl acts interested so that she can indulge herself in the attention that is sure to follow from you. How can you know if she's playing mind games? Looking at my case, the sign was the fact that she was evasive when asked to go on a date but nevertheless continues to show signs. I guess that's the sign you should be looking for as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted October 5, 2009 Author Share Posted October 5, 2009 Around about last year, I approached a girl in my class from uni. She reacted positively and had me chasing her for about a month before she told me that she can't "do this" because she has a boyfriend. So I guess a mind game is when a girl acts interested so that she can indulge herself in the attention that is sure to follow from you. How can you know if she's playing mind games? Looking at my case, the sign was the fact that she was evasive when asked to go on a date but nevertheless continues to show signs. I guess that's the sign you should be looking for as well. how was she evasive hehe. how did she show signs...examples of both thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 Signs: -Always reacts positively when I'm around. Smiles gets all cheerful. -Touched me in the arm, placed her hand on my knee when asking a question. -Always looks interested in what I have to say. -Flirting -Pretty much your textbook "Signs she's interested" Evasiveness: -"I'm busy". -"We'll definitely plan something" (Without saying what, when, and where) -"Sorry can't make it" (If she said yes; this is where I began having doubts) But the thing is, once she shows evasiveness, she'll go back to the signs. Then I think "Oh, maybe she is genuinely busy", flirt some more, and ask her out again at which point she'll go back to the evasiveness. Rinse and repeat until she says that she has a boyfriend and can't go on with this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted October 5, 2009 Author Share Posted October 5, 2009 Signs: -Always reacts positively when I'm around. Smiles gets all cheerful. -Touched me in the arm, placed her hand on my knee when asking a question. -Always looks interested in what I have to say. -Flirting -Pretty much your textbook "Signs she's interested" Evasiveness: -"I'm busy". -"We'll definitely plan something" (Without saying what, when, and where) -"Sorry can't make it" (If she said yes; this is where I began having doubts) But the thing is, once she shows evasiveness, she'll go back to the signs. Then I think "Oh, maybe she is genuinely busy", flirt some more, and ask her out again at which point she'll go back to the evasiveness. Rinse and repeat until she says that she has a boyfriend and can't go on with this. i mean she can still be going out with you and still be playind mind games with you right... the fact that she didnlt agree to hang out or go out with you -was already a clue--its not working or shes not very interested Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 the fact that she didnlt agree to hang out or go out with you -was already a clue--its not working or shes not very interested That's the point (why the hell do I feel like cutting myself in the wrist here?). She's not interested in me or hanging out with me. The only thing she's interested in is the ego-boost of having me go after her. I wouldn't be able to speak to those who have managed to get the girl to go out and have mind games played on them then. I'm just one case. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted October 8, 2009 Share Posted October 8, 2009 So play mind games with her back... Don't be a rollover and let her play with you.. play with her also.. what do you got to loose? If she is interested.. it will increase her interest.. if she isn't.. then you may meet someone else and not worry about her. Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 8, 2009 Share Posted October 8, 2009 Well, it's a bit hard to fight back when the concept is foreign to you at the time it's happening. This is all looking at it in hindsight. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 Ignorance of the rules isn't a defense.. go do some research.. check some websites.. you will find plenty of info on some of the games women play.. you will also find info on the games you should be playing on her... Mind you.. games suck.. but if she insists on playing them.. you can either play along or throw out the board and try a different game/girl Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted October 15, 2009 Share Posted October 15, 2009 It takes 2 to play... you can call game over and just walk away. Saves time and less drama. Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 Ignorance of the rules isn't a defense.. go do some research.. check some websites.. you will find plenty of info on some of the games women play.. you will also find info on the games you should be playing on her... Mind you.. games suck.. but if she insists on playing them.. you can either play along or throw out the board and try a different game/girl Why the hell are you treating it like it's happening now? The concept was honestly foreign to me until I emerged on the other side. But that's what experiences are for, right? Link to post Share on other sites
TheLoneSock Posted October 16, 2009 Share Posted October 16, 2009 While I think that term "Mind Games" is thrown around too often, there are a few things I can add. There are two types of mind games. The intentional, obvious, manipulative kind- things like flirting with other people to make you jealous, sending you strange texts, basically any kind of behavior that seems manipulative, or of alterior motives. And the unintentional, less obvious, confusing kind- things like indecisiveness, confused feelings, flirting with you in private when they are taken, basically anything that makes you feel like **** even though it doesn't seem like it should. Both sexes play them, none of them are fun. I've found that the best way to win at them, is to not play them at all. Play it cut and dry, black and white, and you'll always win. That all just seemed like a rant from me, but there is some value to it. Take from it what you can. Link to post Share on other sites
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