Jasonb8060 Posted November 30, 2003 Share Posted November 30, 2003 This is the one thing that everybody should realise or come to grips with on this site and its the one thing everyone will dissmiss or ignore. You probably will not get back with the other person, unless you do pretty quickly things will get further away from any likelyhood of getting back together. If you don't heed this then you will go through many stages and you will have to whatch them or hear of them being with other people. In all likelyhood it will be as a rebound whether they realise it at the time or not but it hurts all the same. There is no real way of getting over somebody apart from, as im sure every1 is telling you, time. Im sorry, believe me iv shared in your pain. J Link to post Share on other sites
mr_roggger Posted December 1, 2003 Share Posted December 1, 2003 I think that after a small amount of time apart you stand more of a chance as it gives you time to change and them to realise that. If time is a good healer, then some time apart may eventually bring you colser? Link to post Share on other sites
dlb311 Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 I think that it depends on the relationship. If you had lots of fights and jealousy in your relationship take time. And if you had a good relationship it still needs time but maybe not so much time apart. Time makes the heart grow founder or it can make you forget. You have to be strong and willing to go through the pain if you want them back. You have to love them and let them have what they want. That is what love is. If they don't want you anymore then love them enough to let them go. You will find better I promise. Keeping in touch or staying friends after a break up is because you still want that person you are just confused. So sometimes time with that person to show them what you are and what the will be missing makes them realize what they had and they don't want to lose it again. Time away can make someone realize they need you but can also make them just move on. Its mixed signales. I remember there was a guy along time ago I liked. About three years ago. We dated and had lots of fun together. We really liked each other. I liked him so very very much. He went on vacation for a month to Brazil. I found myself interested in someone else so when he returned I broke it off with him. He was such a good guy. And I tell you I know I shouldn't be with him because He deserves better. That is the truth. I have run into him a couple times and tried chatting with him on line but he doesn't want anything to do with me. I hurt him I know this. So after all this time I still think about him and have tried to let him know and that I think he is so great I just want to let him know I know I was stupid and that I know it happened because he deserves better. But I wish he would let him tell him but he wont. But it doesn't matter I do feel this way and I want only the best for him. So remember this could also be the out come. Where they realize what they had and by then you are over it. Time heals all and time clears up all confusion. Patients that is what we all need! Link to post Share on other sites
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