confusedx5 Posted November 30, 2003 Share Posted November 30, 2003 [font=courier new][/font][font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] Ok, well I like 2 guys and I need help choosing between them. J is my boyfriend. we've only been going out a week or so. A couple minutes after he asked me out I found out that the guy I've had a crush, J.L., on for a while likes me too and was tyring to figure out how to ask me out. J is really sweet and I like him. I dont have any classes with him and he's pretty shy so we talk more on the computer than in person. J.L. isn't quite as hot as J but he is soo i donno like right for me. everyone says how we would be an adorable couple. We talk a lot and feel super comftorable together. I really really like him. So should I break up with J and try to get together with J.L.? Or stay with J? Theyre friends but I don't think that would keep J.L. from dating me. One reason I'm hesitant to break things off with J is that my last relationship with J.B. was short, he broke up with me cuz we didnt talk much and werent so right for each other, I'm worried guys will be less willing to date me if I have a track record of two super short, not so successful relationships in a row... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Girlinterrupted Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Well if you accepted when J asked you out then there must of been a reason. You must of, at one point, been drawn to him. I would think that he has qualities, aside from being "hot", that you are attracted to. I say take time to try and make things work with J, give it a chance so that in the future your sure of your decision. As for J.L, you said you "heard" that he liked you but do you know for sure? Has he expressed to you that he is interested in you in a way other than just a friend? If after trying to make things work with J, you find that your still too caught up in your feelings for J.L and know for sure that he feels the same then I say be honest with all parties involved and do what will make you happy and don't worry about what people say. About your track record, it's only dating it's not like your sleeping with all these guys....right? Remember, the grass only "looks" greener on the other side. Good luck... Link to post Share on other sites
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