Flavour Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 ...I cannot stand it! I am in a long distance relationship. It is already difficult as it is. We have already seriously argued for one of his unproper statements ( if a woman pushes herself to me I cannot be held responsible as I am a man) I thought we had solved then today he comes out with a description of a concert where he went yesterday and it was chilly and a lady sahred her blanket with him and he gave her a beer-fair trade eh. Fair trade? Why does he feel the need to tell me things like these, knowing I suffer like mad? Would not it be better to keep his mouth shut? Is he happy that I suffer? I am going to see him in 3 weeks, I feel unsecure because I am afraid I have put on a bit of weight from the last time we met-I am NOT overweight at all, and I am 41 and he is 60- but his stupid statements are getting me angry. I don't really understand. Maybe I am overreacting, but he could tell me something else, anything else, or also something more, not only this. I am not going to answer his email today, I feel so sad. I don't know what to think. maybe it is alla huge mistake, especially this relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
gopher Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 He's 60???? and that immature and needing of female validation??? Yikes....He needs to respect you and your relationship more, it's as simple as that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flavour Posted October 5, 2009 Author Share Posted October 5, 2009 I think you are right. I am feeling so sad I cannot describe. I know it is a stupid thing, but my God.....we are so far apart, and he could tell me about the songs he listened at the concert, about his family, about our future meeting.....I also have people who call me or ask me out but I avoid making lists, or maybe I do not do them simply beacuse I know he would not care.....deep inside maybe I know this. Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 ...I cannot stand it! I am in a long distance relationship. It is already difficult as it is. We have already seriously argued for one of his unproper statements ( if a woman pushes herself to me I cannot be held responsible as I am a man) BOOM, nuff said on his part. Lose this jerk. Link to post Share on other sites
Roxanna Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 His attitude is VERY unattractive. However, if he's telling you about it, you probably shouldn't feel threatened (disrespected by his crappy attitude toward you? Yes, definitely.). Seriously, if he was cheating, or was going to cheat, I very much doubt he would be announcing it to you. Most likely he's some combination of: immature insecure & therefore trying to make you jealous testing you to see how much you care Link to post Share on other sites
Author Flavour Posted October 6, 2009 Author Share Posted October 6, 2009 you are probably right, but what are these? Mind games? So fed up with it Link to post Share on other sites
Roxanna Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Why does he feel the need to tell me things like these, knowing I suffer like mad? you are probably right, but what are these? Mind games? So fed up with it Most likely he's some combination of: immature insecure & therefore trying to make you jealous testing you to see how much you care Asked and answered. Link to post Share on other sites
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