JackJack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 What's wrong with fruit and veggies? Nothing. It was a video I saw once and how it was being done. It wasn't just your typical banana insertion. There was peppers, limes, lemons and mangos, apples, tomatoes, involved. Can you say fruit salad? I guess it wasn't so much the fruit as it was how it was being done. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 Anyone can question anything. But, IMO, the only person that matters, is the one you're directly involved with. Everyone else is moot, when it comes to sexual preferences. For the sake of argument, let's pretend that the average man is turned on by this kind of garbage. Why are you dating the average man? Date the man who's values closely match your own. Link to post Share on other sites
clv0116 Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 But it's been ignored several times by the one group that probably knows the most about it. I've told you already, I can't watch it. Actually, who as dodged the question? A lot of people have answered. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 There was peppers, limes, lemons and mangos, apples, tomatoes, involved. That sounds delicious, unless any of it went up someone's ass, then I'll pass Jersey, I do not think that this porn is super common or main stream. I honestly do not think that most men get off on abusing, humiliating and hurting women. I lived with 3 male room mates for 5 years. I knew all about the porn they watched and saw the things they had on DVD and on their computers. I am confident in the fact that they were good guys that would never abuse a woman. They just jacked off to porn sometimes. My fiance is an amazing guy, I absolutely cherish him and he treats me like gold. He's not super in to porn but has some and I think he watches porn occasionally. I know that porn that is degrading to woman is not his thing. Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 I don't watch much porn, but when I do? Middle-aged amateurs where everybody is obviously having a good, unrehearsed/scripted good time. I can relate to it. Gagging? Not so much. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 "That sounds delicious, unless any of it went up someone's ass, then I'll pass:laugh:" Well then you will pass allina! Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Guy Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 no, i don't like this kind of porn. when girls gag its awkward, and when guys act macho and dominate it really ****ing pisses me off.. kind of hate the attitude actually. but some guys do like that kind of stuff, and so long as they're insecure they will. but then, if a healthy couple told me they liked the titty smack thing i wouldn't judge, it would just not be my thing i guess. doesn't sound fun though.. Link to post Share on other sites
Toe Jam Posted October 6, 2009 Share Posted October 6, 2009 i like the ones where like 20 different guys ejaculate in the girls mouth then she holds it all until the last guy finishes then she swirls all the cum around and swallows it. Link to post Share on other sites
WineCountry Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 i like the ones where like 20 different guys ejaculate in the girls mouth then she holds it all until the last guy finishes then she swirls all the cum around and swallows it. Ahh Toe Jam. I detect an oral fixation from you! I bet you are like me. You enjoy Gay porn. Which, I do from time to time. Something about two hot men..... And that is if they are convincing enough. I have seen some gay porn where the guy could barely get it up. Anyho..I have not even heard of this " Gonzo Porn" nor have I seen it. I dont watch porn that often, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Thornton Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 I know a guy who's into that sort of thing. While very drunk he admitted to a couple of us that he liked rough sex - he said he couldn't get turned on unless the woman was powerless, he liked to tie her up or hold her down so she couldn't move, and hold her by the throat and choke her until she passed out, which as far as I'm aware is a very dangerous practice. He also liked to shove himself down her throat until she gagged and puked - apparently the puking turned him on. In all other ways he seemed like a normal decent guy, he just seemed rather sadistic and unloving when it came to sex. He also had frequent one-night-stands, and refused to date women he really liked because he thought they deserved better, so I guess he must have had some idea that what he liked to do wasn't very nice. I found it slightly worrying that he had this sadistic streak, and it put me off being friends with him - thankfully he's a friend of a friend so he's not around much. OP, what you said about your bf is a little worrying, because if he likes violent sex and watching women gag and vomit he perhaps won't be the most loving and tender of sexual/relationship partners. Please be careful; know where your limits are and don't be pushed into doing anything you don't want to do, don't copy what he watches in porn videos unless it's what you want too. Some of the more violent sexual practices can endanger your health and your life; if that's what someone's into then fair enough, but don't be pushed into doing something dangerous or upsetting just because he likes it. Personally I'd be completely put off dating a guy if he seemed to have a violent or sadistic streak, or enjoyed questionable or dangerous sexual practices. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 I guess what worrries me about this is the question on how many men are into this. I bet it's more then we even knwo because what man would admit to anyone he knows that he likes to abuse women? And how many young kids, boys and girls, with access to the internet come across this stuff? Link to post Share on other sites
gopher Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 No, I hate anything that's degrading to a woman. There's nothing about that kind of porn that would turn me on. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 This is sick.. really.. (holding the head and the girl gagging)... I don't know many people who enjoys gagging.. really.. I would take a dildo and shove it up his throat to see if he enjoys that.. if a guy was holding my head, to the point I can't pull away and at least breathe and I was gagging really bad until I almost gett sick ..well.. guess what? he would pick up half his penis on the floor.. since I have last 'word'..and it's IN MY mouth.. and I have sharp teeth.. Link to post Share on other sites
Thornton Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 What puzzles me is that the guys who are into this sort of violent porn and degradation of women usually seem completely normal and decent in other ways, but then they have this sadistic streak that likes violent sex. I'm not talking about those guys who like a bit of spanking or bondage, that's not what I mean by violent sex - I mean those guys who literally want to make a woman vomit and suffer pain during sex. They seem perfectly normal and nice, but there must be something wrong, somewhere in their heads, if they enjoy seeing women suffer pain. I would worry about having a relationship with someone like that - I'd worry how he would treat children, and animals, and how he would treat me, because there's obviously something wrong with him if he wants to see me suffer pain, he can't love me at all. What gets me about it is that guys say they like this sort of thing, but they don't like it done to them, they like to do it to others. So for example that guy I know who likes asphyxiation, doesn't like asphyxiation done to himself, he likes to do it to others - so he's pushing others into taking a risk and suffering pain for his own sexual gratification, while he takes absolutely no risks himself. The same with those guys who like to see women puke - they're happy to hurt her and risk damaging her throat, while taking absolutely no risks and suffering no pain themselves, which is very selfish. Link to post Share on other sites
Toe Jam Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 What puzzles me is that the guys who are into this sort of violent porn and degradation of women usually seem completely normal and decent in other ways, but then they have this sadistic streak that likes violent sex. ahh its just fantasy escapism not unlike watching Lord of the Rings Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 What puzzles me is that the guys who are into this sort of violent porn and degradation of women usually seem completely normal and decent in other ways, but then they have this sadistic streak that likes violent sex. I would worry and without a doubt think that the degrading porn he likes is more of a reflection on how he likes to treat women or thinks about them then the stuff he presents to the outside to make him seem like a man that he isn't. I always though rough sex was some spanking and being tied up too. Now it's taking rough sex to a new level. What gets me about it is that guys say they like this sort of thing, but they don't like it done to them, they like to do it to others. So for example that guy I know who likes asphyxiation, doesn't like asphyxiation done to himself, he likes to do it to others - so he's pushing others into taking a risk and suffering pain for his own sexual gratification, while he takes absolutely no risks himself. The same with those guys who like to see women puke - they're happy to hurt her and risk damaging her throat, while taking absolutely no risks and suffering no pain themselves, which is very selfish. Well to be honest, how many women come out o the industry with their private parts completely damanged and ravaged from anal and vaginal sex? That is a common thing for women, that aren't even that old, come out of the industry as. But men all over the place take gratification from it. What does that same about men in general? The wanting a woman to puke and punch her around is an entirely new level but is it hugely different then the normal mentality and lack of empathy men in general have for women in general when it comes to pornography? The whole nature of porn is using women to make a man feel good. Most porn does not focus on the female pleasure except to protray a fantasy image of over the top moaning. And people get mad at me for saying this crap. Men will come on here and say I am the one degrading men. But COME ON guys. You don't really care about women in general and are happy to seem them used if it means you can masturabte to them. And the only reason you think one might deserve respect is if she is directly associated with *you*. And men get mad at me when I am just disturbed by the amount and quality of things men seem to like having seen done to women. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 I know a guy who's into that sort of thing. While very drunk he admitted to a couple of us that he liked rough sex - he said he couldn't get turned on unless the woman was powerless, he liked to tie her up or hold her down so she couldn't move, and hold her by the throat and choke her until she passed out, which as far as I'm aware is a very dangerous practice. He also liked to shove himself down her throat until she gagged and puked - apparently the puking turned him on. In all other ways he seemed like a normal decent guy, he just seemed rather sadistic and unloving when it came to sex. He also had frequent one-night-stands, and refused to date women he really liked because he thought they deserved better, so I guess he must have had some idea that what he liked to do wasn't very nice. I found it slightly worrying that he had this sadistic streak, and it put me off being friends with him - thankfully he's a friend of a friend so he's not around much. OP, what you said about your bf is a little worrying, because if he likes violent sex and watching women gag and vomit he perhaps won't be the most loving and tender of sexual/relationship partners. Please be careful; know where your limits are and don't be pushed into doing anything you don't want to do, don't copy what he watches in porn videos unless it's what you want too. Some of the more violent sexual practices can endanger your health and your life; if that's what someone's into then fair enough, but don't be pushed into doing something dangerous or upsetting just because he likes it. Personally I'd be completely put off dating a guy if he seemed to have a violent or sadistic streak, or enjoyed questionable or dangerous sexual practices. Thanks for your reply! I actually have been rethinking my relationship with him. We have been seeing each other for a few months now. When things first started out we watched some porn together, but it wasn't the kind I have described in this thread. This kind of porn he has been showing me, has been recently. So I'm not sure, if this is something he has discovered and has been into recently or if he has liked this kind of thing all along, and is just now showing it to me, to see what I think. However, he now knows what I think of this kind of porn! Its true what you were saying about your friend and how he seemed like a perfectly normal guy other than the weird porn stuff. That's the way my guy I'm seeing is too. However, its to my understanding, seriel killers can be quite nice and normal acting too! I think this is my thinking. If he enjoys this kind of thing towards women, what else is he into or could be. Like I said before this is different than your "acting", or "staged" looking porn. There is something about some of these things I'm seeing that is very real. Not that porn is not real, I'm just saying its not like a fantasy, its like these people are really treating these women this way because its how they really feel or see them. I know this might sound weird, but when I would see some of these women's faces, I wanted to jump through the screen and try to save them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 ahh its just fantasy escapism not unlike watching Lord of the Rings No its seems more than fantasy to me. Its a lifestyle that I think some of these people actually live. In other words, I think its how some of these women are treated by some of those men, when the cameras are not rolling. Link to post Share on other sites
Toe Jam Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 I know this might sound weird, but when I would see some of these women's faces, I wanted to jump through the screen and try to save them. well the women did sign a contract and get paid and i'm sure they knew what they were getting into so i don't think there is much "saving" to do Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 well the women did sign a contract and get paid and i'm sure they knew what they were getting into so i don't think there is much "saving" to do I knew this was coming, and surprised it wasn't mentioned before now. You're right, however, the painting of how glamorous porn is or can be by the media is also misleading. Just because a persons "choices" to get into something they "think" they wanna do, doesn't give another person the right to treat them like sh*t in the process. Link to post Share on other sites
My_Lil_Pumpkin Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 I'm sick just thinking about this sort of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 You change your username to Justification for all porn. And with that being said, and since you seem to be a big advocate for this type I have described, log off my thread, and go look at the many kinds you enjoy. I'm serious. I do not appreciate you trying to make light of my thread that I made on something I find odd and disturbing. If you are all for abusive type of porn then maybe you need to go watch some. He's already using an alternate username. Anyways, to stay on-topic, I would be greatly concerned about a man who's interested in this type of pornography. It's the difference between a man who enjoys a movie that has some gratuitous violence in it and one who deliberately seeks out movies with humiliation and torture, inflicted on weaker individuals. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 Juniper, what did your guy say when you told him what you thought of that kind of porn? And did you say it affects your perception of him? Ted Bundy was a very charming guy. Its all just fun 'n games and fantasy...no different than someone being treated badly in a regular film What is fun about making a woman puke on her or causing her pain? Degradment of females might be fun 'n games to you, but to women that want to be in relationships with healthy minded males that don't want to see women completely abused, humilated and their spirit obliterated, that's another matter. I truly feel sorry for any woman that has a relatoinship with you given your idea on women showcased in this thread. And it is fastly different between a porn film and a regular movie. When you see a Jewish person in a Holocust movie being abused they aren't really abusing that person. They are giving a protrayal or an accoun of history with major make-up and special affects and out-takes. And I don't think most men are masturbating to the abuse. When you see a woman in a porn getting abused there ARE men masturbating to it. Coorelating the degradement of others and lack of empathy to postive feelings of masturbating. And that man in the movie really is doing those things to that woman in the movie. There are no tricks in that. When that movie film is shut off, I doubt those women are given more respect after then before. And while those women choose to do the things they do in film, why does that mean men with wives, gfs sisters and daughters should get off to seeing these women do them? How does her action to do the film justify a man's action in being excited over the completely abuse of women? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 He's already using an alternate username. Anyways, to stay on-topic, I would be greatly concerned about a man who's interested in this type of pornography. It's the difference between a man who enjoys a movie that has some gratuitous violence in it and one who deliberately seeks out movies with humiliation and torture, inflicted on weaker individuals. Thanks! Yeah, I'm trying to think of a good excuse to get out of this relationship now. I guess telling the truth would work huh? I mean its only been a few months, so its not like I have lots of history, or time and energy into the guy or the relationship. I do like him, he is sweet, and helpful and is good to me etc. BUT, I don't know, what do I say? "I think we might need to cut things off because you like this weirdo porn?" I guess there is no correct way to go about it. Just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Juniper22 Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 "Juniper, what did your guy say when you told him what you thought of that kind of porn? And did you say it affects your perception of him?" When I asked him if he was into this kind of porn, he just kind of grinned and said, "Maybe." That was his answer, so I took it mean, "Yes." I just told him if he thought of trying those things with me he would be picking his teeth up off the floor. He didn't say anything really, just looked at me kind of funny. As far as my perception of him. Yeah I guess it has changed. Like I said he is sweet, and good to me, but so were lots of serial killers too! Link to post Share on other sites
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