Trackends Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 Okay, this is about my ex who I'm still very involved with. I broke up with her due to a lot of disrespect from her regarding our relationship. She's a very attractive 16 year old girl, and I'm 20. She gets a ton on male attention at her work, especially from two particular guys. She seems to love it, and from what I figure, the love I gave her couldn't compete. What I need help on is figuring out why she tells me certain things. For example, we're having lunch at a restaurant. Completely out the blue, she tells me how one of those particular guys talks to her. She's getting in his truck one night, has her legs between the shifter, and he says "Haha, the first time I get you in my truck and I already got my stick between you legs." She seems to think I want to hear about that and it's funny for some reason. She tells me he's also a "Christian". Yeah, right, sure he is with those comments. Why does she tell me this? She knows clear as day I still love her and want her back, despite the things that happened. These two particular guys I'm talking about are both rednecks. She seems to love the whole "country" aspect. I grew up in the south my whole life, but apparently because I don't talk the right way, or drive a truck, or go "muddin", I'm not good enough. There's so many more examples, but I know for a fact both these guys, and they're around 22, think she's a "dog" because she always runs to them whenever they call her up, because of the comments they've made about her straight to her face, and of course she's always telling me about it. I know all too well what they want from her. What is this? I always treated her like a queen and never put another girl before her. She's a wonderful, great girl, I just don't know why she feeds off this kind of attention. Help me, please. Link to post Share on other sites
JustLooking123 Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 Dude, she's 16. You're 20. Can you say jailbait? Find a woman who is of age. She is immature in age and behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
seibert253 Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 She's very immature. You need to leave her be and find someone who is older, mature, and knows the meaning of respect and committment. You current GF has no concept of these. Run Forest, Run Link to post Share on other sites
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