jumi Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 Hi, I know there isn't much to be said to comfort me, but my boyfriend is planning on visiting the Cliffs of Moher. This columbus weekend is the last weekend he spends in ireland before he comes home and can be in my arms once again (10 days ) Now he is very smart and he is usually the one that watches out for *my* safety... but I am worried sick. Other than a couple small issues we've talked about and healed, nothing has seriously bothered me the past 8.5 weeks except worrying about his safety. It's that helpless feeling . But it literally makes me sick to my stomach, I know that Moher is a massive tourist attraction and they make it as safe as possible but I came across this article "From the cliff's edge, you can hear the booming far below as the waves eat into the soft shale and sandstone. Often, sections of the cliff give way. Visitors should beware because there are no safety precautions or fences. While there I could not help but notice how seriously dangerous these cliffs could be for the tourist and a quick search on the Internet reveals that several people each year fall to their deaths." There isn't anything I can do except drive myself absolutely insane and wait for the weekend to be over. The anticipation and excitement over him going home has me wicked high strung atm. Link to post Share on other sites
carvidep Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 oh noo! as if long distance isn't bad enough as it is! *crossing my fingers!!* Hopefully what you read was an exaggeration! Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted October 7, 2009 Share Posted October 7, 2009 Sheesh, jumi!!! Chill, will ya??? Your boyfriend will be just fine and no amount of your obsessing about his welfare will do one bit of good. The lad will be back by your side in 10 days. Why not spent that time thinking good thoughts and planning a special "Welcome Home" celebration for him instead of working yourself into knots AGAIN about something you have no control over whatsoever? Don't mean to come across harsh or insensitive, but you really need to get a handle on your fears before they end up wrecking your life AND your relationship. Just not healthy for you -- or the two of you. Ya hear???? Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
Author jumi Posted October 7, 2009 Author Share Posted October 7, 2009 Sheesh, jumi!!! Chill, will ya??? Your boyfriend will be just fine and no amount of your obsessing about his welfare will do one bit of good. The lad will be back by your side in 10 days. Why not spent that time thinking good thoughts and planning a special "Welcome Home" celebration for him instead of working yourself into knots AGAIN about something you have no control over whatsoever? Don't mean to come across harsh or insensitive, but you really need to get a handle on your fears before they end up wrecking your life AND your relationship. Just not healthy for you -- or the two of you. Ya hear???? Best, TMichaels ya i know its ok, i need someone to slap me. its so close to him coming home, i get so nervous! i really must come across as a train wreck on this forum, i guess i post the worst of the worst :-p i really am not a psychopath in real life Link to post Share on other sites
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