amagordos Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 So i must have social anxiety because i am really really shy. I dont even like saying hi and bye to my family. I hate small talk. I gues the reason i am so shy is because i am very dorky and act like a big kid, so i am afraid i will be judged by that. My big sister told me that lots of people think im immature, I, however, know I am not immature because inside my mind there are lots of philosophical thoughts brewing. My biggest issue is talking to boys, especially boys i am interested in. I don't know how to show a guy i am intersted in him and i also am too scared to talk to him Like this one guy i really like in my music class that I really want to talk to but i don't have the guts to do it. I cant even look at him or smile. Do you have tips for this shy girl who also has never had a boyfriend in her life and i think its because of my extreme shyness. Link to post Share on other sites
Pedigree Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 I cant even look at him or smile. Given that you're a girl, if you can work on this, you would have already improved by leaps and bounds. If you can do this and follow it up by going to the guy and talk, that's a potential boyfriend for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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