Saros200k Posted October 11, 2009 Share Posted October 11, 2009 (Title was supposed to be "Need advice after accidentally ignoring") So, a girl that I'm bio lab partners with and I get along really well. We talk a lot in class, so much so that our other class partners end up having to talk to each other since we end up focusing on each other. I always walk her home from class, and she has actually waited for me to walk with her (I thought she might think I was following her, so I one time tried to stay behind and see what she would do.) Anyway I friended her once on facebook earlier after I had only met her two times (but we really got along) and she didn't accept right away, so I being ridiculous took the advice of a friend and took away the friend request, even though she's the type to not go on facebook a lot, so she probably didn't see it. It's been a couple weeks now of the flirting and talking to each other each week, and she kind of hinted she wanted to hang out with me this weekend, but being the clueless guy I am, I didn't really pick up on it until after. Since I don't have her phone number, I also couldn't really ask her out afterwards. This afternoon I'm pretty sure she stopped to say hi to me, but I was blasting music and thought it was some other person saying hi to someone behind me. But when I turned around no one was there, so it definitely was her...so I essentially blew her off. Does anyone think I should friend her on facebook and maybe say "Hey is this lab partner Kristen?" in a message with it? Then ask if I accidentally blew her off? I thought it might be an opportunity to at least get in contact with her more also. Any advice would be appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
amagordos Posted October 11, 2009 Share Posted October 11, 2009 Sounds like she likes you so why dont you go for it. Befriend her on facebook and talk to ther every opportunity you get. Id be cool too if you asked her out. Take a risk and see if it pays off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Saros200k Posted October 11, 2009 Author Share Posted October 11, 2009 think I should add a message with the friend request mentioning accidentally blowing her off, or just keep it simple with the request and see what she does? Link to post Share on other sites
amagordos Posted October 11, 2009 Share Posted October 11, 2009 Keep it simple, accept her friendship, and if she wants to talk to you she will. Don't overdo it either. Best of luck i wish for you;) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Saros200k Posted October 19, 2009 Author Share Posted October 19, 2009 thanks for the advice, we just went on our first date this past weekend Link to post Share on other sites
amagordos Posted October 20, 2009 Share Posted October 20, 2009 That's awesome amigo, im happy for you, see it pays off to take a risk Link to post Share on other sites
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