MDog Posted December 1, 2003 Share Posted December 1, 2003 Hi. I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have a crush on a girl at my school. She is very beautiful, she is very smart and incredibly nice. She would talk to me sometimes and we would get along. But she found out that I liked her from an enemy of mine. She stopped talking to me completely. Every time I walk by her in the hallway she would stare at me and when I would look at her she would avoid eye contact with me. When we had to do a project together she would hardly say anything to me. When my friends try to talk to her she just walks away with a blank expression on her face. My friends say that she is very shy but I just don't know. I feel gilty about what has happened. I need some advice pretty fast, so can anyone help me? Tell me if you need more info about this. Thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
Minus Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 Personally, I think she doesnt know how to act around you now. I mean you said at first that you guys would talk, but as soon as she hears that you like her, she stopped talking to you. Right now, she just doesnt know what to say or do. She probably likes you too, but I cant say Im 100% positive on this, because she looks at you, then avoids your eyes when you look her way, and when you did that project together, she didnt say anything, because, IMO, sheknow what to say. Honestly I would feel the same way if someone I know suddenly likes me. I wouldnt know how to act or what to say around them. So in other words, your friends are right: she's probably shy. My advice is just talk to her, and maybe ask whats up. I know when dealing with shy people, it can be difficult, but if you help make them feel comfortable around you (ie talking to them, making them laugh), they wont be so shy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MDog Posted December 4, 2003 Author Share Posted December 4, 2003 Thanks Minus. I tried to talk to her today but to my surprise she looked different. I don't know but this is bugging me. She used to have straight hair but now she permed it and she now has slightly curly hair. She also is wearing a lot more makeup than before. She is actually a lot prettier now than before. Thankfully she has the same personality as before. The problem is all of a sudden I can't get within 20 feet of her without being speechless. And just thinking about her makes me very depressed. My stomach is hurting. I'm also losing confidence in myself. I need a real cofidence boost. Can someone tell me what is going on and why I'm feeling this way? And also can more people help me with my problem in my first post. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MDog Posted December 5, 2003 Author Share Posted December 5, 2003 Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
Author MDog Posted December 9, 2003 Author Share Posted December 9, 2003 We're both really shy so it will be hard to confront her. Can someone give me some advice to deal with this? Link to post Share on other sites
hitnf Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 Just go up to her and talk, ya i know its hard to talk to someone you like, but i would not know never had a girl as a friend, so there. Thing is go up be honest if the words dont come out right(happens to me) and like for me she rejects me(3 diff girls), at least you can try and say something before its too late instead of kicking yourself, or holding on. Cause of these girls and others my self confidence is crushed, i mean go up there and talk to her. g/l Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted December 17, 2003 Share Posted December 17, 2003 Whats the worst that can happen if you talk to her, and if you don't you could miss a huge opportunity Link to post Share on other sites
lowkeychic Posted December 29, 2003 Share Posted December 29, 2003 have u thought of writing her a heart felt note and leaving it in her locker or getting a trusted friend to give it to her. i know its sounds old fashioned but maybe its a way of getting ur feelings across to her without being face to face or putting her on the defensive because she's shy?? just a thought Link to post Share on other sites
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