samsungxoxo Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 to have a voice in it when deciding what is consider crossing the line and what is dishonesty, what would be consider cheating (well we all know kissing or sex is but other things the OP thinks it's cheating), deal breakers, etc.... What about the other person, for example me. Aren't they humans with thoughts and feelings too? Why should the OP be given 100% into it like you're suppost to go along with what one person thinks. For if for example watching porn is cheating for the OP but to you it's ok then you're suppost to go along with it 100% thus feeling trap? What about your voice in it? Shouldn't it at least be like 50/50 in it. Link to post Share on other sites
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 13, 2009 Share Posted October 13, 2009 I'm confused, Samsung - what are you using the letters "OP" to stand for? I always thought it meant "Original Poster" or "Original Post." Meaning the author of a thread, or the very first post starting a thread. If that's what you mean, then I really don't understand your post. Help a girl out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samsungxoxo Posted October 14, 2009 Author Share Posted October 14, 2009 I'm confused, Samsung - what are you using the letters "OP" to stand for? I always thought it meant "Original Poster" or "Original Post." Meaning the author of a thread, or the very first post starting a thread. If that's what you mean, then I really don't understand your post. Help a girl out.OP means the other person, meaning your significant other..... Link to post Share on other sites
tryagaintoday Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 (edited) Just use SO in future. Conform... samsungxoxo, I think you need to understand the meaning of cheating. If you watch porn but you let your spouse know about it and she's ok. Then it is not cheating. It is cheating if she says don't watch it anymore and you agreed with her but secretly watch it behind her back. I also have a question, my ex-fiancee had an affair and left me for him. Then why am I the one having to do all these "rectifications" to myself? Why am I the one having to face all these issues? Signing up for gym package, buying books to read, going to therapy, losing sleep, couldn't concentrate on work, needing to spend so much on drinks and smokes etc. Other than monetary loss, it also causes hair loss!!! Edited October 14, 2009 by tryagaintoday Link to post Share on other sites
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