jjenkins70 Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Here is my delima. I met this terrific women. We talked on the phone and online for apx 2 weeks (very easy flow of conversation, laughing, etc etc)....we met in person one time. that also went great. things seemd to be really looking up. some things happend that caused us not to see each other for a few days...but I noticed after her meeting me, the phone calls didn't happen as often, or for as long, hardley ever talk on the computer....every time we do talk, I hear "I really enjoy tlaking to you and can't wait for our next date"...but then I do'nt hear from her for a while. I also should mention, i'm new to the whole dating arena...been a while since i have dated (few long term relationships). SO, is this just normal beginning dating delimas, or is she not interested, what signs do I need to look for etc? Thanks for all your help. Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 Women want to see that men are interested… if she doesn’t call, call her, if she doesn’t ask you out, ask her. If she is anything like me, I let the man do what he feels, cos this is the only way I am going to see how he feels, and wants from me. Before you met, it was different, now that you have, its time to chase the mouse… women are of the belief that guys like hunting their prey, so to speak, so have fun with it. IF she does not respond to you in a positive manner, (you’re just going to have to judge that one on your own), then leave her alone. If she does reposed positively, good for you. I think that when she says that she can’t wait for your next date, she is hinting that she would like you to ask, but it doesn’t look like you are getting the hint. Just ask her out again, she is telling you she would like to see you again, so… do your thing man! She is probably on some other love forum posting something along the lines of….. I met this really terrific guy, he used to call me on the phone and we’d talk for hours. He wanted to meet me in person, so we did, now that we have he doesn’t call as often. When I do speak to him, I always tell him how much I enjoy our conversations and that I cant wait to see him again. I wish he would ask me out on a date, I wonder why he doesn’t, maybe he is not interested. GET IT? Show her your interested. Get to know each other and most importantly, Call her now… and ask her out! HAVE FUN! Link to post Share on other sites
Author jjenkins70 Posted December 3, 2003 Author Share Posted December 3, 2003 PurpelAngel--Your right on target! Thank you for what you said. I had called her and sent her a text message yesterday, and didn't hear back, so I thought maybe i was being to forward with wanting to see her again etc etc. about 2 hours after posting she called me, and told me that yesterday she was really sick (bad migraine), and today was a thte hospital with her friend (she had a baby) which is why she didn't call me until so late. I then explained that I wanted to make sure I wasn't showing "to much interest" and she was like "OH NO, I love guys who aren't afraid to express interest"...I said well, it's nice that you respond with the same interest!! Long story short, she is going to call me tomorrow and we are setting up our 2nd date in person for this Friday! She is def. an awesome lady, and she thinks I'm an awesome guy, so now I get to learn all about her and hopefully something magical (good friend, or maybe even girlfriend) will blossom. Have you (or anyone) that has been out of the dating scene for a long time ever feel wierd getting back into it...alsmost like learning to ride a bike again, scary, but when you get the hang of it (which i haven't yet) it should be fuN! I will keep everyone updated (hopefully for inspiration!) Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 its so cool having those butterflies in your stomache feeling and new relationship jitters.... lucky guy Link to post Share on other sites
Author jjenkins70 Posted December 3, 2003 Author Share Posted December 3, 2003 does feel pretty good, being excited for something is always fun! now time to be myself and let teh cards fall as they will! Link to post Share on other sites
FLAT_LINER Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 ha yeah i was in the same boat as u........ hey not trying to jack ur thread but can u girls/guys name some stuff that a girl likes to do for fun for when we go out?.i need some ideas.....thanks oh and good luck man Link to post Share on other sites
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