mark Posted November 13, 1998 Share Posted November 13, 1998 I've been with the same girl for ten months and have know found someone who is more free willing to do anything. I'm seeing her but don't like going behind my girlfriend back. i love her louds but enjoy having this bit on the side for sex when i'm bored. what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
amy Posted November 13, 1998 Share Posted November 13, 1998 well... first of all, if you say that you love your girlfriend as much as you say then you wouldn't be cheating on her. my X did the exact same thing that you are doing to me. Unless you want her to be incredibly hurt and resentful, don't cheat! i never could understand why it is so terribly hard to be faithful. Everything has to involve sex, that is really sad and pathetic. i suggest that you review your priorities and if one of them is sex.. well then you don't deserve her! Link to post Share on other sites
Dani Posted November 13, 1998 Share Posted November 13, 1998 Ahmen Amy! I couldn't have said it better myself! Sometimes guys have the morals, feelings and actions of a poodle! Dani G Link to post Share on other sites
Pete Posted November 13, 1998 Share Posted November 13, 1998 You don't say how old you are, but I guess you're a teen. My recommendation is finish with your girlfriend - as nicely as possible tho there is no nice way, then have all the sex you can with the other girl. You're only young once, make the most of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Venus Posted November 15, 1998 Share Posted November 15, 1998 Pete, What a terribly irresponsible advice to a teen. In today's world shouldn't you be espousing abstinence or at least a monogamous relationship. You may be young only once. But if you aren't careful, AIDs/STD will get you before you reach a ripe old age. You don't say how old you are, but I guess you're a teen. My recommendation is finish with your girlfriend - as nicely as possible tho there is no nice way, then have all the sex you can with the other girl. You're only young once, make the most of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Charly Posted November 18, 1998 Share Posted November 18, 1998 Pete, I think that you obviously don't have a dire need for commitment at the moment, and if this is the case, then don't stick with it. If you were committed, then you wouldn't be cheating. I would prefer to give advice to someone and say 'go out and do as you please and only hurt yourself' rather than say 'stay within the confines of a relationship and cheat on her'. As long as you are safe with this 'fling' of yours, then it doesn't matter once you are single. But I must agree with the others when they say that cheating is the worst thing that you can do to someone. Make the decision about what is right for you at this moment in life. You can always change your mind down the track. Cheating is a really bad habit to get into. Pete, What a terribly irresponsible advice to a teen. In today's world shouldn't you be espousing abstinence or at least a monogamous relationship. You may be young only once. But if you aren't careful, AIDs/STD will get you before you reach a ripe old age. Link to post Share on other sites
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