superman Posted December 4, 2003 Share Posted December 4, 2003 I have been friends with this girl for about 5 years. She never gets close to guys but she has with me. There have been times when I feel like she looks at me as someone that she could date. (She openly admits that she would like to find someone that would treat her as good as I treat the girls I date) But for the most part I think she looks at me as a big brother type. I was there for her when she caught her boyfriend cheating on her and she has seen my girlfriends drag me through the mud. She is an amazing girl and since the first time I saw her I have been blown away at her beauty. She is very shy and I don't want to scare her away by asking something of her she doesn't want. I would really like to ask her to go to my friends wedding comming up. Should I ask her as a friend and see if anything happens or should I tell her flat out what I want. I don't know if she could handle that. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 So what's the deal? In one thread you want to get back with a girl who broke up with you (see: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t29376/ ) and in this thread you're looking to express your feelings to a friend. Frankly, I think you need to take some time out to get your head on straight before you do anything at all. You are one confused dude! I knew superman...and you are surely no superman!!! Link to post Share on other sites
watered-red Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 If you love her,don't hide your feeling. Tell her the feeling in your mind,and wait for her reply.Don't be afraid of any responses of her possible to appear.If you pocket your true feeling,in future maybe you will repent of losing this chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author superman Posted December 5, 2003 Author Share Posted December 5, 2003 I am not in love with this girl. I simply feel like we are compatable. If I had my choice I would be with my ex-girlfriend. I do love her. But I can not force the issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I think it is great you are moving on from the broken relationship with your girlfriend....who you do still love very much. Would it really be fair to your friend to start a new relationship so soon while you still have feelings elsewhere? Maybe it would be best to just remain friends with her until YOU are ready to really love someone else again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author superman Posted December 5, 2003 Author Share Posted December 5, 2003 That is what I am afraid of. I would never want to hurt anyone. Especially not her. But I am the type of guy who likes to be with a girl. I enjoy taking them to dinner and making them feel special. My friend is special to me and I thnk we would be a good couple. But I never want to hurt her. I will ask her as a friend and see how things go. Maybe just being with her alone for a weekend will open my eyes one way or another. Link to post Share on other sites
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