Am i nagging and bitching to much to my bf? what can i do?

[absolutely_sweet]

me and my bf have been going out for a yr and almost 8months,

i feel like hes been pushed away, and no interest in me really alot anymore i have did so much bitching till its so bad i have stopped bitching alil bit, its just them thangs that u cant help but to nag about and i need to quit it and i wish he would make me feel like im the world to him.

i probly fuss about thangs that really ant important,

but when i do talk to him about something or whatever he just gets all heated over and gets upsets and say i dont have time for this or whatever, like he dont care or hes just so tired of me nagging on him

i dunno what to do? i want our relationship to be great and full ove happiness and love .

or is it not my fault i bitch sometimes.

pls i needs some advice thanks

[Desert Wind]

He asks you to get a life, so GO GET A LIFE. Start by concentrating on your own interests away from your boyfriend. Go out with your girlfriends or do something on your own. If he still doesn’t notice you are missing, then he is taking you for granted. Relationship is two way and you’re probably nagging because you are not happy. Try to get his attention by doing things on your own and say less negative things to him. Don’t go out seeking revenge, it will only make matter worst and after a while if you know you have done your best and he still doesn’t change, then it’s time for you to make a final decision.

 

Until then I wish you well.

 

Desert Wind

[Emotional]

Hey welcome to the club!! I dont no if I can give u any advice but I'm the same. I bitch everyday my bf says I start a fight everyday. I try to stop but I get so upset over things that he doesnt understand. me and him can fight for a whole day sraight on the phone. I want to stop but I get so emotional over things. WE have been going out 4 2 years 2morrow and today we got into a huge fight cause I overreacted. Sometimes I tell him not to go out with me cause he can do better I get so bad sometimes. SO SO I know exactly how you feel and it's not ur problem. I nag cause I'm happy I know it sounds weird but im very happy but I still get angry. I dont have any advice I wish I did cause this situation sucks for us I dont think u want to loss him. So try not to bitch I do that but I cant deny my anger, I cant pretend its not there So this is a very tricky Well so much for the help I gave u but I wanted to let you know u are not alnoe

 

Take care

[dyermaker]

Am i nagging and bitching to much to my bf? what can i do?

 

You could stop nagging and bitching so much. Seriously though, your problem lies in communication, like most. Both of you are too impatient or stubborn to work things out.

 

i want our relationship to be great and full ove happiness and love.

 

Communicate. If you can't communicate, this is not the guy who will give you happiness and love. By the way, I'm a jerk when it comes to spelling errors, but that should be "of" not "ove". Usually I let things go, but I think I'm actually being semi-helpful on that one.

 

or is it not my fault i bitch sometimes.

 

Yes it is. Please take responsibility for your actions, it will make it easier to change. I'd move on from this guy, you even said he's not interested in you. Both "emotional" and "absolutely_sweet" have problems dealing with their anger. Just a tip, if you constantly bitch at someone, they aren't going to continue to be attached to you. I don't know what it is that causes you to sever a connection with people you care about (I think I might, but I ain't goin there), but you need to figure it out, and stop. Step one is to recognize the problem lies in YOU, not in them. You both will continue to sabotage all healthy relationships if you continue to blamelessly behave this way.