LostInLA Posted November 24, 2009 Share Posted November 24, 2009 Well, is there any question about the class that you could ask him? Have you noticed what he's interested in (sports, cars, art, something?)? Can you figure out a question to ask him his opinion about (say he brings in a cup of coffee from a local independent coffee shop, you can ask him how it is, or if he has an interesting gadget you can ask him about that...). Seems like you need to learn the art of conversation and small talk... Have you ever sat next to him? Sorry I haven't read this whole thread but do you know anything about him at all? Figure out something and ask him about it or ask his opinion. What kind of class is this, btw? Link to post Share on other sites
Nodoal Posted November 24, 2009 Share Posted November 24, 2009 Id think of it a different way. Personally ive found that when i flip the tables things work out twenty times better. Now instead of thinking am i interesting to her, i think is she interesting to me. The more you think about a person the less you learn. It sounds like you dont know this guy but you think hes very important (its possible he could be a complete ******* but you thought he was prince charming). Talk to people, practice with as many people as you feel comfortable with and learn what about them interests you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author amagordos Posted November 24, 2009 Author Share Posted November 24, 2009 you guys are right, i don't know much about him, but i am very intrigued by him. I know he likes music because we are in a music history class, particularly rock n'roll. And i think practicing on other people is a really good idea, that im going to follow. thanks for advice. If anything happens i will keep you informed. Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted November 24, 2009 Share Posted November 24, 2009 you guys are right, i don't know much about him, but i am very intrigued by him. I know he likes music because we are in a music history class, particularly rock n'roll. And i think practicing on other people is a really good idea, that im going to follow. thanks for advice. If anything happens i will keep you informed. You have 3 more weeks.. 3 more chances So you can either ask him sooner and maybe go out with him. Or wait till the last day to ask.. then if you get rejected you don't have to worry about seeing him. We call this the chicken **** approach Link to post Share on other sites
Author amagordos Posted November 24, 2009 Author Share Posted November 24, 2009 that is so true, i might just wind up asking him on my last day of class because im such a scaredy cat Link to post Share on other sites
LostInLA Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 Maybe try to find out if a band he likes is playing soon and find out if he's going! Link to post Share on other sites
Author amagordos Posted November 26, 2009 Author Share Posted November 26, 2009 that is not a bad idea at all. i like that you are helping me, thank you so much Link to post Share on other sites
LostInLA Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Good luck!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Yukikazi Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 You realize if you wait till the last day.. then its a do or die moment.. What will you do if you don't have the "perfect" opportunity to talk to him? Let it go and give up? Do it sooner so you can try again if necessary.. just walk up.. bump into him and introduce yourself You may have to step out of your comfort zone to make the magic happen Link to post Share on other sites
Author amagordos Posted December 3, 2009 Author Share Posted December 3, 2009 i realize but now i only one more chance and its either do or die, that sucks Link to post Share on other sites
Awesome Username Posted December 3, 2009 Share Posted December 3, 2009 i realize but now i only one more chance and its either do or die, that sucks keep us updated! Link to post Share on other sites
Author amagordos Posted December 22, 2009 Author Share Posted December 22, 2009 hey guys sorry it has been a long time since i told you about my situation. What happened is that i didn't talk to him on the last day of class, instead i waited a week and half after school was over and i talked to him on myspace. I told him how shy i was to speak to him and he was nice about it. It was going good for me and i thought maybe we could just be friends, but it has been days and he hasn't replied to me, which makes me think he is not intersted. I guess that is the end of that, i prefer to let it end there and just be happy that i at least did something and now i don't have to wonder. Thanks for all the advice Link to post Share on other sites
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