there is nothing painful than breaking up with your lover

[mikky88]

There is nothing quite as painful as breaking up, with or being ditched by, someone we are crazy about, someone we love so much we can't stand to be without. If you're a guy that has had that special someone leave you I'm sure you have been searching for the answer to how to get your girl back.

 

The good news is that it is very possible to win back your ex, you just have to go about it the right way and you are almost guaranteed success.

 

Tip 1. - Don't act desperate. When you have just broken up, as tempting as it may be, whatever you do don't go rushing around desperately trying to get her back. Play it cool, nothing will push her away even more, than hassling or begging her, get on with living life without your girlfriend for a while, go out with your buddies, catch up with family, take a trip. By doing this you will create the illusion that you "may" be seeing other people, this will arouse her curiosity, she will be wondering why you seem to be getting on just fine without her, maybe she made a mistake and before long she will contact you, trust me, curiosity will get the better of her.

 

Tip 2. - The next step in resolving the question, "how to get your girl back" is once she has contacted you, don't be in a hurry to say yes to seeing her, tell her it was really nice to hear from her and as much as you would love to get together you really are too busy at the moment, when she asks "busy with what or whom?" Just be a little vague with your response, something like "oh just some old friends" will work nicely. You see if you want to know how to get your girl back you need to use some psychological tactics, a little reverse psychology or mind games if you will.

 

Tip 3. - After some time has passed, agree to see her, keep it "just friends" for a date or two, by doing this you will have her crazy to go further with you, now not only will you get your ex back but you will be in a position of strength in your relationship also.

Edited October 24, 2009 by a LoveShack.org Moderator