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A man who is not arrogant will never be his own boss.

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[off-topic] Disillusioned, "hubris". There are two sides to arrogance, one related to self-esteem and on the other end of the spectrum, is higher status (e.g. believing you're above everyone else).

 

Back on topic... did you sense Rated-RKOFranklin was arrogant from his posts?

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No. OTOH he seems to have gotten the gist of the game fairly quickly.

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Dude, after reading all these posts, let me ask you: what do you want people to tell you? You certainly are entitled to your own opinions, yet you get very defensive when people offer theirs. What is it that you want out of this post? Truth be told, the way you write, you DO come across as arrogant. I don't know you personally, as you may not be in real life, but just an observation. Also, are you sure you don't have self esteem issues as you are trying REALLY hard to portray yourself as this great guy. Most truly inner confident guys don't try so hard to exude confidence. (Correct if I'm wrong ladies, but a truly confident guy is a turn-on, am I wrong?)...

 

About your standards. I applaud them, as at least you have some. Most young people are still confused. However, most of them if not all are superficial qualities. I am like you friend, I love the well kept, beautiful women, and over the years I've had my share; I LOVE attractive women. Before this year, I've never dated anyone less than an "8" (in my eyes), and I'm not saying this to boast. It's just a numbers game. I've asked 100s of girls out, so if you actually looked at my percentage, its absolutely horrendous. However, none of that matters if they cheat on you, or won't take care of you when you need their help, or if as a person, they are just bad (and I've learned there ARE bad people in the world).

 

So what's my point. You have to open up your mind and expand your horizons, not only with the ladies, but more importantly also with yourself. Yeah!?! Surgery on you ears, probably not, but don't discount it entirely. And remember, you can't keep on adding "1 + 1", and not expect it to result in anything but 2.

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Dude, after reading all these posts, let me ask you: what do you want people to tell you? You certainly are entitled to your own opinions, yet you get very defensive when people offer theirs. What is it that you want out of this post? Truth be told, the way you write, you DO come across as arrogant. I don't know you personally, as you may not be in real life, but just an observation. Also, are you sure you don't have self esteem issues as you are trying REALLY hard to portray yourself as this great guy. Most truly inner confident guys don't try so hard to exude confidence. (Correct if I'm wrong ladies, but a truly confident guy is a turn-on, am I wrong?)...

 

About your standards. I applaud them, as at least you have some. Most young people are still confused. However, most of them if not all are superficial qualities. I am like you friend, I love the well kept, beautiful women, and over the years I've had my share; I LOVE attractive women. Before this year, I've never dated anyone less than an "8" (in my eyes), and I'm not saying this to boast. It's just a numbers game. I've asked 100s of girls out, so if you actually looked at my percentage, its absolutely horrendous. However, none of that matters if they cheat on you, or won't take care of you when you need their help, or if as a person, they are just bad (and I've learned there ARE bad people in the world).

 

So what's my point. You have to open up your mind and expand your horizons, not only with the ladies, but more importantly also with yourself. Yeah!?! Surgery on you ears, probably not, but don't discount it entirely. And remember, you can't keep on adding "1 + 1", and not expect it to result in anything but 2.

 

How am I trying hard to be portray as a nice guy? Please tell me.

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How am I trying hard to be portray as a nice guy? Please tell me.

 

I said GREAT guy. And what's the point of this reply?

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I said GREAT guy. And what's the point of this reply?

 

I don't know why you are getting an attitude with me. You clearly said that I come across as an arrogant guy who is trying to hard to be viewed as a great guy. All I just did was ask you why do you think that.

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