Who is more shallow men or women?

[mem11363]

Most women prefer bigger men. Very powerful built in biological reasons for this. Just recognize that if you refer to shorter men as like - little kids - you are being mean spirited. Very few men find mean spirited women attractive. It is usually perceived as either a character flaw - you are sadistic - or compensation for your own insecurities.

 

 

 

Yeah but you have to realize in my culture i have to try a lot harder especially since lighter is considered better in my culture added with black men are looking and wanting to date outside their race. i have to do everything i can to keep up..

[Tayla]

An interesting inquiry, relevant to shallowness, would be what would women do if there were no men as assign shallow behaviors to. Who would they dress up for then?

 

Carhill, good point! Fortunately some females also don't wanna see each others unmentionables so out of due respect we clothes. Would love to not have to Invest in the corporate world dress code, but until we find a system that allows clothing to not make the person , we are stuck. Even my boss who is a male, has made it clear that Fine Suits are required in sales as he believes the clothing(appearence) makes the sale. Odd but that is his take on things.

[betamanlet]

I'd have to say women are more shallow than men are. Sure there are some men that are picky when it comes to looks, but I've noticed women being way more picky than than men are. Also, men don't really care about clothes, or styles, other than to "impress" women, and women care about shoes and handbags not even to impress men, but to compete with other women and to show off, so that's pretty shallow. And also, the women's magazines you see in the checkout line, wow...

[Jersey Shortie]

I think men are more shallow. I've dated a wide range of looks in men. Some attractive, some not so much but I was wildly attracted to them. Rarely do I see men say the same or do the same when it comes to women. Men base their choices on breast size and waist size. Men usually have a universal agreement on who they find attractive and rate a woman's worth based on it. They feel better about themselves by how attractive the woman on their arm is. While women can be just as tough on some subjects concerning men, the whole media of society focuses on what a woman looks like, what roles she is suppose to fit into or not, to be considered a woman. You are suppose to maintain the body you had at 19, bare his kids, keep the hosue perfectly AND bring home the bacon and make sure to still look perfect in a thong later that night while he expects you to give him a bj even though you had to go to work and drive the kids around. Not that that will stop him from oggling the 19 year old babysitter. It's not women that have a billion dollar industry that focues on the way men looks or even on how much money a man makes to masturbate to. We don't see nearly as many ads that objectify men as we do see ads that objectify women. All in all, yes I think men are more shallow.

 

Now don't get me wrong, I think women can be shallow too on their own points. But I think women are more loving, forgiving, open and understanding and nurturing to men then the reverse. Men can be pretty cold and selfish.

[MissJoness]

I think men are more shallow. I've dated a wide range of looks in men. Some attractive, some not so much but I was wildly attracted to them. Rarely do I see men say the same or do the same when it comes to women. Men base their choices on breast size and waist size. Men usually have a universal agreement on who they find attractive and rate a woman's worth based on it. They feel better about themselves by how attractive the woman on their arm is. While women can be just as tough on some subjects concerning men, the whole media of society focuses on what a woman looks like, what roles she is suppose to fit into or not, to be considered a woman. You are suppose to maintain the body you had at 19, bare his kids, keep the hosue perfectly AND bring home the bacon and make sure to still look perfect in a thong later that night while he expects you to give him a bj even though you had to go to work and drive the kids around. Not that that will stop him from oggling the 19 year old babysitter. It's not women that have a billion dollar industry that focues on the way men looks or even on how much money a man makes to masturbate to. We don't see nearly as many ads that objectify men as we do see ads that objectify women. All in all, yes I think men are more shallow.

 

Now don't get me wrong, I think women can be shallow too on their own points. But I think women are more loving, forgiving, open and understanding and nurturing to men then the reverse. Men can be pretty cold and selfish.

I 100% agree!!

[Nikki Sahagin]

I think men will find women more shallow and women will find men more shallow.

 

However in my personal experiences, I find women more selective and men more desperate. I've been in clubs where the same man will basically go around every girl and get rejected by every single one. I think men can overlook everything about a girl when they are horny. As I heard one guy say "you don't need to look at her face". I think men are not so 'shallow' because they will generally sleep with anything and everything. Women by contrast are much more picky and selective generally.

 

I also agree with the former post about the industry around a womans physical appeal. Men are obsessed with the idea of what a woman is because only by women can men be defined, so if the woman is weak, the man can then be strong, if the woman is strong, then the man doesn't know what he is.

 

Sorry if this offends anybody and of course it isn't true of everyone. But women tend to place more stock on a mans personality/sense of humour. Men focus on looks. Of course this is beginning to change now with women being more 'up for it' and fancy free. I would say I think MOST people aren't shallow ENOUGH, a lot of people seem to have no selection process to weed out partners, they just find someone thats 5% interested and go for it! haha

[drillman]

Who is more shallow men or women? There are many people who say men are shallow, and they force physical standards to be met. There are others who believe women are just as shallow.

 

This is just from my own experience. I have seen some of my male friends who are considered attractive by girls, go out with girls who are not every attractive. None of my female friends have dated an ugly guy.

 

Guys go out with plain women most times for a temporary physical satisfaction. women select good looking men because they are more inclined to emotional long term relationships, and have instinct to breed, looking for good genes. Both genders can be equally shallow, for different resons