brown leo Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 I just broke with my girlfriend of 4 years....boy was it tough. Previously, however, I was in a 6 year relationship with my ex-fiance', I decided to break it off because I never had time for myself, time to grow, time to just be me. It sucks though, I miss her a lot, she's wife material but I'm not ready for her at this moment in my life. Don't know if I am making the biggest mistake of my life, or if I am doing the right thing, that's the thing about life, you just don't know...I'm hurting and confused and sad. I guess I just want to vent and see if anyone (i'm sure of it) has gone through the same thing. Link to post Share on other sites
SecretlySad Posted October 26, 2009 Share Posted October 26, 2009 Previously, however, I was in a 6 year relationship with my ex-fiance', I decided to break it off because I never had time for myself, time to grow, time to just be me. I am currently going through the same thing. At least you did what you needed to do, I can't seem to find the courage to break it off with my boyfriend of 5.5 years. I haven't been single in 10 years either. I have no idea about myself and I feel completely dependant on others. Do you love her? What was her response? Link to post Share on other sites
Author brown leo Posted October 27, 2009 Author Share Posted October 27, 2009 I love her a lot, and she didn't take too well, obviously, but I feel like I can take breaths with ease...it's a load off my back and I feel good being true to myself. It's tough, we talked yesterday and it was pretty sad honestly. I know that if I do not do this, and if we stay with each other, our future will not be good, and I know I can end up regretting this, but I have to try. Man life blows sometimes...I dislike these things called feelings and/or not knowing how to deal with them. I know she's hurting, been crying a lot, and she wanted to see me, but I had to say no, I know it can lead to this whole thing becoming way too complicated. Link to post Share on other sites
cherub Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 I sorta know what you going through. Ive been in a continously with someone since I was 19. Im now 31 and beginning to realise that I've totally lost the person that I was when I was 19...if that makes sense! Secretlysad - I was reading your post about having to break up with someone that thinks the world of you...Im going through this at the moment and its one of most painful and confusing things that I've ever had to go through. I so want to be with him but the sexual side has dried up...We're more like friends.. But I still want to make things work with him but Ive called it off to take time out...I may never meet anyone like him and that just breaks my heart.... Link to post Share on other sites
mookalerato Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 I think i got a solution for y'all "Discover how I got my ex back and never have to worry about relationship problems ever again: http://www.payzeno.com/a/mookalerato/19" Link to post Share on other sites
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