need advice!!

[in need of advice]

i need some advice, im 15 and the girl i like is 12 (im 2 and 1/2 years older than her) i really like her but i dont know how to tell her, i think she likes me but im not sure

 

we are friends and we talk a lot but im not sure how to tell her

[Guest]

12? Sweetie she may be to young for you, I know it's only 2 1/2 years but a 12yrs old girls should not really be dealing w/ boys yet.

 

I really think she is too young still.

[in need of advice]

the gap does seem quite big and she does seem young but whenever im around her i feel happy and when im not around her im sad and thinking of her.

 

the more i think about her the more i want to tell her i like her

 

i dont know what to do

[Guest]

It's not the gab it's the fact that she is only 12, your very young too but there is a huge difference between 15 & 12.

 

If you do tell her can I ask what you expect in return and do you think that she is mature enough to understand your feelings?

 

Do you want to be her boyfriend? What do you want to get out of telling her?

 

I think this is really sweet but I think you should just be careful being that she is so young. She is way too young for a boyfreind.

[yes]

different girls are ready to date at diff't ages. some at 11 are like some others at 15, so we cannot judge her general readiness without knowing her.

 

but, i think if all you want is to hang out with her more often, by all means let her know - just say that you really enjoy her company and you'd like to see more of her. see how that goes. keep us updated!

 

good luck,

-yes

[in need of advice]

want i'd want in return is to maybe see more of her, talk to her on the phone, or go out places with her sometimes.

 

i dont want her to be my girlfriend but just a close friend.

 

i really like it when im with her i just want to be around her more and when i speak to her she seems really happy to speak back to me and she always smiles at me

[yes]

so just call her more often, invite her to go places more often, etc - it's all in your hands, and it's your job to lead both b/c she's younger and a girl. just be sensitive to her reactions.

 

good luck,

-yes

[in need of advice]

iv never asked her to go out somewhere with me before so i dont know how to say it, and iv never phoned her because i dont know what to say to her.

 

if you were me what would you do?

[Guest]

There is nothing wrong w/ being good friends and talking on the phone, even going out eventually. Go for it hun, tell her you really like her, it can't hurt.

 

Just be aware that she is a really young girl whether she thinks she's "ready" or not.

 

Good luck, this could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

[yes]

you call her, you say hi, ask how she is, ask if she's too busy to talk (if so, ask what's a better time to reach her), ask how her day or week has been going.

 

then say you wanted to see a movie on such-n-such a day - would she like to join you? mention how you're going to get there (i'm assuming neither of you drive, but you gotta go to her house and go to the movie theatre from there). if she's busy that day, ask if she'd like to go to a movie with you one of these days, or she'd rather not. if it's a yes, find a day when you're both free. if it's a no, say "ok, thanks anyway", and wind up the conversation (as in, you have to go, nice to talk to her, bye).

 

that's my 2c.

-yes

[monkey00]

Most girls mature faster than guys most of the time, if she likes you i dont think you will have any problems...

 

i guess ppl around your age only really do movies, or sports, or just hangout and walk around after school....i guess thats the only suggestions i have.