Lishy Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Do you even think for a moment how dishonest wearing heels is?You're trying to pretend you are taller than you really are. WHat would you do if you found out a guy you were dating wore padded underwear or was wearing shoes that made him appear taller? You'd probably be furious, yet why is it okay for you to do that? Oh, wonderbras as well.. Breast implants? are you joking? wearing heels is dishonest? are men that stupid that they would not notice the size of the heels and do the math? If a guy wore padded underwear to make his package I would think he was weird as that is not normal ... wearing heels is normal I guess wearing make up is dishonest too? Is wearing aftershave dishonest too as it will make the girl think that you naturally smell nice? Talk about on the defensive! Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 But what would her friends think? Okay, the reailty here, is that women are far more picky, far more shallow than men could ever dream to be, and for the stupidest of reasons. To impress friends they don't even like. They love showing off. Do men care about shoes or handbags? Of course not. Women get that stuff like they like to be seen hanging off tall men... It's about insecurities and trying to impress others due to their insecurities. I agree ive always said women are more shallow and picker..Theyre in constant comeptiton with other women and care what other women will say or think men for the most part dont give a damn How about we wear lifts in our shoes so you arent so paranoid then?? Is that ok?? Are you women looking for love from us men or are we just accesories to you that have to make you feel secure by towering over you to hide your own insecurities?? Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 are you joking? wearing heels is dishonest? are men that stupid that they would not notice the size of the heels and do the math? If a guy wore padded underwear to make his package I would think he was weird as that is not normal ... wearing heels is normal I guess wearing make up is dishonest too? Is wearing aftershave dishonest too as it will make the girl think that you naturally smell nice? Talk about on the defensive! So if more men stuck socks in their underwear it would be normal, because all that matters is numbers? You're holding against guys that they are your height, or shorter, in unnaturally tall, high heels, yet he would be taller than you if you weren't wearing heels. You're holding this against him. You're calling me defensive? At least I don't hold against people something they have no control over. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Do you even think for a moment how dishonest wearing heels is?You're trying to pretend you are taller than you really are. WHat would you do if you found out a guy you were dating wore padded underwear or was wearing shoes that made him appear taller? You'd probably be furious, yet why is it okay for you to do that? Oh, wonderbras as well.. Breast implants? If I have options that will better me, why wouldn't I take them? It's like going hungry when you have a plate of food in front of you. I don't wear heels just because they "lie" about my height, but I do consider it a plus. I also wear heels because I find them sexy and they help accentuate my legs. However, I honestly don't just wear heels for height. I'm always straight forward about my height ( and it's pretty normal since 5'3- 5'4 is average for a woman). I think I'm entitled to date men with standards, just like men already do with women they either consider too busty, not busty enough, slim, slender, fat, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Also, some guys will probably think I'm too short, and I'm okay with that. I just won't date them. Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I agree ive always said women are more shallow and picker..Theyre in constant comeptiton with other women and care what other women will say or think men for the most part dont give a damn How about we wear lifts in our shoes so you arent so paranoid then?? Is that ok?? Are you women looking for love from us men or are we just accesories to you that have to make you feel secure by towering over you to hide your own insecurities?? They key with most (not all, but most) is that they desire men that other women desire. You could be 5'2, and get women, if you already had a girlfriend, or you were a celibrity. People always bring up Danny Devito, he's 5'0, fat, and bald, but he got a woman. He's a rich celebrity though... It's SO much easier to get dates and a gf when you already have one. Every guy knows this is true, though it's not PC to admit it... If you're tall, you're something that can be shown off, yet the tallest guy in the world claims he can't get any dates... But there are all sorts of studies that show that tall men get a large percentage of the women, and tall men make more money than shorter men. If you watch the clip I provided, basically the women were saying the taller guys woul dhave to be serial killers for them to consider the short guy over the taller guy... I once almost choked from laughter when a 4'10 woman told me I was too short for her, and asked if I would introduce her to my friend who was 5'11, and I'm 5'10... I could have stepped on her she was so short. Yet she could be that picky. It's so funny. Trust, me, your life would be miserable with someone who is preoccupied with trying to impress other people. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 well, i think everythings been covered....i have nothing to add Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 If I have options that will better me, why wouldn't I take them? It's like going hungry when you have a plate of food in front of you. I don't wear heels just because they "lie" about my height, but I do consider it a plus. I also wear heels because I find them sexy and they help accentuate my legs. However, I honestly don't just wear heels for height. I'm always straight forward about my height ( and it's pretty normal since 5'3- 5'4 is average for a woman). I think I'm entitled to date men with standards, just like men already do with women they either consider too busty, not busty enough, slim, slender, fat, etc. Okay, 20 years from now, your son comes home from school, crying, and you ask him, "what's wrong Tyler?" and he says "Jane McManus turned me down, she said I was too short for her!". What would you say to your son to make him feel better, and would you believe what you say? Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Also, some guys will probably think I'm too short, and I'm okay with that. I just won't date them. Every gf I've had has been 5'3-5'4, as they tend to prefer men who are 3" taller than their height in heels. Taller women want men to be taller than 5'10, and shorter women like to be seen with very tall guys, so you often see 5' women with 6'4 guys where I live... Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 They key with most (not all, but most) is that they desire men that other women desire. You could be 5'2, and get women, if you already had a girlfriend, or you were a celibrity. People always bring up Danny Devito, he's 5'0, fat, and bald, but he got a woman. He's a rich celebrity though... It's SO much easier to get dates and a gf when you already have one. Every guy knows this is true, though it's not PC to admit it... If you're tall, you're something that can be shown off, yet the tallest guy in the world claims he can't get any dates... But there are all sorts of studies that show that tall men get a large percentage of the women, and tall men make more money than shorter men. If you watch the clip I provided, basically the women were saying the taller guys woul dhave to be serial killers for them to consider the short guy over the taller guy... I once almost choked from laughter when a 4'10 woman told me I was too short for her, and asked if I would introduce her to my friend who was 5'11, and I'm 5'10... I could have stepped on her she was so short. Yet she could be that picky. It's so funny. Trust, me, your life would be miserable with someone who is preoccupied with trying to impress other people. Im 5'8 and 5'1 girls have called me short..Its almost if women want to live vicariosuly through their tall boyfriends and think they adopt that height or something Link to post Share on other sites
TheLoneSock Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I wouldnt date a guy under 5'10" - I am 5'7" tho and that is why! I could never date a guy shorter than me no matter how good looking he was 5'7" is considered tall for a girl? What is the national average? Most of the girls I've been with long term were 5'6" - 5'8". Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Im 5'8 and 5'1 girls have called me short..Its almost if women want to live vicariosuly through their tall boyfriends and think they adopt that height or something The shorter she is, the more likely she wants a tall guy, that and very tall women. There are plenty of 5'3-5'4 women and women your height that would at least consider you. i see plenty of short guys with girlfriends. When I used to have roommates, my roommate was about 5'5, and he had the most beautiful girlfriend I had ever seen in my life. She's probably 5'2.. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Okay, 20 years from now, your son comes home from school, crying, and you ask him, "what's wrong Tyler?" and he says "Jane McManus turned me down, she said I was too short for her!". What would you say to your son to make him feel better, and would you believe what you say? 20 years from now, the average height for men would increase, and most women would still want to date taller men. If I do have a son who came crying to me, I would chide him for dating so early and just wait for puberty to catch up to him. What I'd written although hypothetical is still quite logical, since if you look at the facts, both men and women are much taller than their ancestors years back due to proper nutrition and not necessarily genetics. Link to post Share on other sites
TheLoneSock Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 People should be cautious about their shallowness. You know the saying... the sins of the father are the sins of the son. This goes for guys and gals. Karma is a bitch, but not always to you- your kid may be the one that pays for it with his height/her overweightness. Think about it, be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 20 years from now, the average height for men would increase, and most women would still want to date taller men. If I do have a son who came crying to me, I would chide him for dating so early and just wait for puberty to catch up to him. What I'd written although hypothetical is still quite logical, since if you look at the facts, both men and women are much taller than their ancestors years back due to proper nutrition and not necessarily genetics. Ah, I see, there will be natural selection, as shorter guys will die out because women don't want them. that would be great if there were no recessive genes. So in the real world, say if your son turns out to be short and he's upset he got rejected for his height? Can you even feel any empathy or are you just that shallow you cannot see anything wrong with this? Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 People should be cautious about their shallowness. You know the saying... the sins of the father are the sins of the son. This goes for guys and gals. Karma is a bitch, but not always to you- your kid may be the one that pays for it with his height/her overweightness. Think about it, be nice. There's no such thing as Karma. I know horrific people that just treat people horribly, and still win at life. I knew some chick that couldn't not cheat if she tried. She even cheated with me, and I'm nothing to brag about, yet she still manages to marry a really rich guy.. Meanwhile, I have to slave away repaying my student loans, and I'm faithful and never would consider cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 People should be cautious about their shallowness. You know the saying... the sins of the father are the sins of the son. This goes for guys and gals. Karma is a bitch, but not always to you- your kid may be the one that pays for it with his height/her overweightness. Think about it, be nice. I agree.And preferences as i said are fine but theyre seems to be a bitterneness and a condescening manner against men who arent tall even by short women.. I dont get it Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I'd never said I was shallow. I never said I would want to date a 6ft tall guy either. I only said that I wouldn't want to date someone who I tower over when I'm in heels. Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I'd never said I was shallow. I never said I would want to date a 6ft tall guy either. I only said that I wouldn't want to date someone who I tower over when I'm in heels. I know, what would all those strangers think! Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Please don't turn this into a gender war, I was merely giving my honest opinion. That does not mean I speak for the majority of women or short women in general. Everybody is entitled to their opinions and if you don't agree, you can't really begin an argument just to prove your point that women are shallow. Both genders are shallow. I'm starting to think that if someone started a penis thread and said they got dumped because they were too small, all of you guys would jump at the chance to start putting women down. Link to post Share on other sites
MissJoness Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Okay, 20 years from now, your son comes home from school, crying, and you ask him, "what's wrong Tyler?" and he says "Jane McManus turned me down, she said I was too short for her!". What would you say to your son to make him feel better, and would you believe what you say? I would be honest with him and say that because of his height he will have to work twice harder than taller guys when it comes to women. I won't sugarcoat anything. Just be honest with him. If being short is such a problem, then don't they have pills like Height Max to make you much taller? I'd do something about it. Just like women, if their breasts are too small, too big, they get breasts implants or a breast reduction. If they are too pale, or too dark, they bleach or get a tan. Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 Please don't turn this into a gender war, I was merely giving my honest opinion. That does not mean I speak for the majority of women or short women in general. Everybody is entitled to their opinions and if you don't agree, you can't really begin an argument just to prove your point that women are shallow. Both genders are shallow. I'm starting to think that if someone started a penis thread and said they got dumped because they were too small, all of you guys would jump at the chance to start putting women down. So in conclusion, if a man rejected a woman because her breasts are too small, he's a shallow pig. However if a woman rejects a man taller than she is, but because he's not tall enough, that's just her preference. GOT IT! Link to post Share on other sites
betamanlet Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I would be honest with him and say that because of his height he will have to work twice harder than taller guys when it comes to women. I won't sugarcoat anything. Just be honest with him. If being short is such a problem, then don't they have pills like Height Max to make you much taller? I'd do something about it. Just like women, if their breasts are too small, too big, they get breasts implants or a breast reduction. If they are too pale, or too dark, they bleach or get a tan. So, race discrimination, BAD. Religion descrimination, BAD Sexual Orientation discrimination, BAD Gender discrimination, BAD Handicap discrimination, BAD Height discrimination, PERFECTLY FINE. Say if 40 years ago people just accepted some people don't like black people and they should be fine with haveing discrimination and Jim Crow laws? Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 I would be honest with him and say that because of his height he will have to work twice harder than taller guys when it comes to women. I won't sugarcoat anything. Just be honest with him. If being short is such a problem, then don't they have pills like Height Max to make you much taller? I'd do something about it. Just like women, if their breasts are too small, too big, they get breasts implants or a breast reduction. If they are too pale, or too dark, they bleach or get a tan. Id tell him most women arent worth the headache .Be lucky you get to filter out million of these crazy broads who will reject you from the jump off something as trivial as height Link to post Share on other sites
MissJoness Posted October 27, 2009 Share Posted October 27, 2009 So, race discrimination, BAD. Religion descrimination, BAD Sexual Orientation discrimination, BAD Gender discrimination, BAD Handicap discrimination, BAD Height discrimination, PERFECTLY FINE. Say if 40 years ago people just accepted some people don't like black people and they should be fine with haveing discrimination and Jim Crow laws? Yeah but we're not saying that short men should be discriminated from jobs, or other things. We're just talking about dating. And short men in this country, have never taken from thier home country and forced to work as slaves, or made to sit in the back of the bus or anything like that. Please don't try to turn this into something its not. Link to post Share on other sites
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