I want an asian bf ¬.¬

[xMilliex]

I'm a 20 yr old black girl... anyways... I was just wondering if it's possible for asians to be attracted to black girls?? (i mean like koreans, chinese and japanese)... cos a lot of black girls are attracted to asians, but they keep it a secret cos they're convinced that asians are repulsed by black people... which is 98.5% true because their idea of beauty and attractiveness is pale skin, blue eyes and blond hair... and slim ofcourse... anyways this may sound like a stereotype of view / comment but i know it's a fact because i've been to asia and have seen it for myself....

 

Anyway, back to my question... are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys? ... even if it's in secret please say... lol

[CarrieT]

I live in San Francisco so I think I see the most mixed couples possible and I have seen many African Americans with Asians.

 

So, yes.

 

I guess, depending on where you live, it might be more difficult to target your demographic, but if you Google "Asian dating" you will find a TON of related sites.

[Peaceful Guy]

.. are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys?

 

of course.

[Template]

Hell yes. Some of the most attractive females I've met in life were black women.

[someone000]

I'm a 20 yr old black girl... anyways... I was just wondering if it's possible for asians to be attracted to black girls?? (i mean like koreans, chinese and japanese)... cos a lot of black girls are attracted to asians, but they keep it a secret cos they're convinced that asians are repulsed by black people... which is 98.5% true because their idea of beauty and attractiveness is pale skin, blue eyes and blond hair... and slim ofcourse... anyways this may sound like a stereotype of view / comment but i know it's a fact because i've been to asia and have seen it for myself....

 

Anyway, back to my question... are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys? ... even if it's in secret please say... lol

 

wow you are a lot like me!! I'm a black girl as well and i like asian guys a lot. I really hope its not true that they are repulsed by us though >_>

I dont live in asia but i have a lot of asian friends so i guess the stereo type doesnt go for everyone.

[Pizzaman81]

What is it that you find interesting about "us?"

[stillafool]

Probably your beautiful skin, shiny hair and gorgeous smiles. Your big calves are also a turn on. Also asian men always look so clean and I love that. You also have good taste in clothing. Damn, why don't I have an asian guy?

[angie2443]

Probably your beautiful skin, shiny hair and gorgeous smiles. Your big calves are also a turn on. Also asian men always look so clean and I love that. You also have good taste in clothing. Damn, why don't I have an asian guy?

 

I agree, except for the calf thing. I've never noticed the big calves.

[woopster638]

it really depends where you live.......but i live in a trinidad and as long as i remember,i always like black girls.

 

in fact all my relationships were with black girls.

 

and personally i like slim black girls with nice ass,but thats just me lol

[Pizzaman81]

I agree, except for the calf thing. I've never noticed the big calves.

 

if you want to look for big calves, go to China, look for ricksaw pullers or bicycle taxi guys....

[selena_cat]

I know a friend of mine whose a nice looking black guy who only dates Asian women,however,the problem he has is with their parents.Many of them,Asian parents that may not approve,but that shouldnt stopp you,good luck. Asian guys are cute

[Pizzaman81]

I know a friend of mine whose a nice looking black guy who only dates Asian women,however,the problem he has is with their parents.Many of them,Asian parents that may not approve,but that shouldnt stopp you,good luck. Asian guys are cute

 

I actually find that lot of black families have good solid family values. Which is important to us Asians.

[woopster638]

Asian guys are cute

 

 

Why most of girls find us just CUTE?.....we are not pets lol

[yongyong]

most asian guys will not date black girls unless a girl look like a beyonce (then she doesn't have to go for asian guy anyways)

[Zoff]

I think that a lot of Asian guys would have a big problem with their parents. It's racist but it's generally just not accepted in my experience.

 

Having said that I'm really surprised to see someone specifically chasing Asian men, the normally have a tough time on the dating scene when it comes to non Asian women.

[USMCHokie]

Having said that I'm really surprised to see someone specifically chasing Asian men, the normally have a tough time on the dating scene when it comes to non Asian women.

 

^ This.

 

And to OP...uh, why?

[Pizzaman81]

^ This.

 

And to OP...uh, why?

 

Are you implying something?

[yongyong]

your post is totally B.S. it's not because I don't agree with it

 

you said it's racist thing if asian guy won't date black women

(I have no problem with this comment)

 

but you are also saying it's weird for someone chasing for asian guy?

 

so in your head, all asian guy is weirdo, creep, geek?

 

btw are you purely WHITE person?

 

cuz I know white people react aggressively to racial comment against minorities ('hey that's racial, don't say that) even though it's nothing to do with them

 

when, in fact, they see a white girl with a black guy, they would say

'what a whore'

 

am I wrong?

 

 

 

 

I think that a lot of Asian guys would have a big problem with their parents. It's racist but it's generally just not accepted in my experience.

 

Having said that I'm really surprised to see someone specifically chasing Asian men, the normally have a tough time on the dating scene when it comes to non Asian women.

[yongyong]

let me tell you why asian guys will have a problem with their parents about dating a black women.

 

I am just being honest here. I don't want to say BS (oh you are sweetheart, you will find charming guy sooner or later) which is U.S culture

 

Asian people don't have a good image about black person.

 

for example, my dad told me 'hang out with white, stay away from blacks' when I left my country to come here.

 

I think he had seen only few black people in person in his life.

 

black people are portrayed as poor, criminal, slaves through hollywood (white people money)

so that's the image he had in his had.

 

I thought indians were bad before coming to this country and studying the U.S history

but who actually raped, killed, stole all the land and put them in prison by saying 'reservation'?

It's because I learned those from hollywood movies

 

so before those parents meet the actual person, they won't have a good image

all the relatives will think the same way as well.

 

BTW, I will find it very funny if white person think that is racist.

(it's like nazi is telling jews , you guys are doing something wrong)

[Pizzaman81]

let me tell you why asian guys will have a problem with their parents about dating a black women.

 

I am just being honest here. I don't want to say BS (oh you are sweetheart, you will find charming guy sooner or later) which is U.S culture

 

Asian people don't have a good image about black person.

 

for example, my dad told me 'hang out with white, stay away from blacks' when I left my country to come here.

 

I think he had seen only few black people in person in his life.

 

black people are portrayed as poor, criminal, slaves through hollywood (white people money)

so that's the image he had in his had.

 

I thought indians were bad before coming to this country and studying the U.S history

but who actually raped, killed, stole all the land and put them in prison by saying 'reservation'?

It's because I learned those from hollywood movies

 

so before those parents meet the actual person, they won't have a good image

all the relatives will think the same way as well.

 

BTW, I will find it very funny if white person think that is racist.

(it's like nazi is telling jews , you guys are doing something wrong)

 

I think we should just have this post closed. Just leave it. Whatever Zoff and USMCHokie said was probably just to piss us off. I say walk away from this battle.

[USMCHokie]

I think we should just have this post closed. Just leave it. Whatever Zoff and USMCHokie said was probably just to piss us off. I say walk away from this battle.

 

 

Not meant to start any fires...it was a semi-serious question...in my life, I've only known one person who was actually into specifically Asian guys...and to be honest, in today's society, I'd even be surprised to hear that remark (chasing specifically Asian men) from an Asian woman...but my viewpoint has been significantly influenced by where I grew up...and by the way, I'm Asian.

 

Not trying to racist...just realist...

[Leonard]

Not meant to start any fires...it was a semi-serious question...in my life, I've only known one person who was actually into specifically Asian guys...and to be honest, in today's society, I'd even be surprised to hear that remark (chasing specifically Asian men) from an Asian woman...but my viewpoint has been significantly influenced by where I grew up...and by the way, I'm Asian.

 

Not trying to racist...just realist...

 

Well, I've seen many asian women go after white guys, luckily they aren't very pretty in the first place, and they also aren't very bright. The white guys they hook up with, are neither rich as they'd hoped, and they aren't that high up the social ladder.

 

Then I observe them working like slaves for their unemployed alcoholic husbands, just to save the imaginary fact that they had bagged a so called 'trophy white guy', to parade around their families and friends.

 

That's the danger of picking a partner for anything except genuine love. Asian women are particularly susceptible to this.

 

People need to learn to not be so obsessive with status or obtaining some sort of trophy, because the novelty wears off... Novelty always wears off.

[USMCHokie]

Well, I've seen many asian women go after white guys, luckily they aren't very pretty in the first place, and they also aren't very bright. The white guys they hook up with, are neither rich as they'd hoped, and they aren't that high up the social ladder.

 

Then I observe them working like slaves for their unemployed alcoholic husbands, just to save the imaginary fact that they had bagged a so called 'trophy white guy', to parade around their families and friends.

 

That's the danger of picking a partner for anything except genuine love. Asian women are particularly susceptible to this.

 

People need to learn to not be so obsessive with status or obtaining some sort of trophy, because the novelty wears off... Novelty always wears off.

 

 

Yep...I just got back yesterday from Okinawa, Japan (which is practically overrun with our military installations...) and this phenomenon was quite prevalent over there too...you'll see many Japanese nationals ogling over the "trophy white guys", as you put it...and it does seem like a status thing for Asian women over there...but at the same time, I suppose it's also a better life for many of them to marry an American who is just there for a few years...a meal ticket and a flight to the US...

[Pizzaman81]

Yep...I just got back yesterday from Okinawa, Japan (which is practically overrun with our military installations...) and this phenomenon was quite prevalent over there too...you'll see many Japanese nationals ogling over the "trophy white guys", as you put it...and it does seem like a status thing for Asian women over there...but at the same time, I suppose it's also a better life for many of them to marry an American who is just there for a few years...a meal ticket and a flight to the US...

 

Perhaps a lot of the times people get bored of their own culture. They try to adopt to a new culture because they believe it is better. While at the same time abandoning a lot of the core values which make one culture special.

 

There are some aspects of Asian culture which demands a bit more work and dedication to family. Well... some girls feel it's better to get lazy and not do that. They think it makes sense... I mean United States of Independance right? Parents? What?

 

Nothing in life that is worthwhile is easy

[tobefree]

I'm a 20 yr old black girl... anyways... I was just wondering if it's possible for asians to be attracted to black girls?? (i mean like koreans, chinese and japanese)... cos a lot of black girls are attracted to asians, but they keep it a secret cos they're convinced that asians are repulsed by black people... which is 98.5% true because their idea of beauty and attractiveness is pale skin, blue eyes and blond hair... and slim ofcourse... anyways this may sound like a stereotype of view / comment but i know it's a fact because i've been to asia and have seen it for myself....

 

Anyway, back to my question... are there asian guys / girls that are even slightly attracted to black girls / boys? ... even if it's in secret please say... lol

 

Hi there, i am a Chinese. I am 26 years old male. I don't find black girls unattractive, I find some are quite pretty.you said you had been to asia so have you been to china before?