muse08 Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 can i just text him and say how i miss him and that even though we may not get back together, i want him to know i will remember him. btw, i broke up with him a while a go but we've been in serious break up mode for about 2 weeks now. i initiated NC w/him twice and he keeps calling during the entire period. but soon as i respond to his calls he backs down...recently i feel like he only he really loved me i believe but i just think it got unhealthy and a bit obssessive. he is now in his "passive"...when he was just blowing up my phone last week. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 NO. No, no, no, no, no. Link to post Share on other sites
Author muse08 Posted October 28, 2009 Author Share Posted October 28, 2009 NO. No, no, no, no, no. ha! yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy? OMGoshhhhh Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted October 28, 2009 Share Posted October 28, 2009 ha! yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy? OMGoshhhhh I said NO. NC is your friend. It would not be a good thing at all if you said that to him, you would regret it pretty much the instant you sent it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author muse08 Posted October 29, 2009 Author Share Posted October 29, 2009 (edited) I said NO. NC is your friend. It would not be a good thing at all if you said that to him, you would regret it pretty much the instant you sent it. you're funny. but honestly i think it would make me feel better.i feel like i need to get it off my chest.ever since i broke up with him,i haven't said anything like that.i've agreed to see him a few times,then just been like borderline ignoring him out of frustration of nothing changing.he has asked me several times what i want him to change and saying he wants me back although,i broke up with him. i really just feel like getting stuff off my chest Edited October 29, 2009 by muse08 Link to post Share on other sites
luvflower Posted October 29, 2009 Share Posted October 29, 2009 you're funny. but honestly i think it would make me feel better.i feel like i need to get it off my chest.ever since i broke up with him,i haven't said anything like that.i've agreed to see him a few times,then just been like borderline ignoring him out of frustration of nothing changing.he has asked me several times what i want him to change and saying he wants me back although,i broke up with him. i really just feel like getting stuff off my chest i completely feel you by needing to get something off your chest. however, you have to think about the outcome. if you think he will be accepting of your words after you've dumped him and all that, then go ahead. otherwise you may need to stay put for now. he may contact you soon, though it sounds like you are supposed to be done with him...right? Link to post Share on other sites
Awesome Username Posted October 29, 2009 Share Posted October 29, 2009 If you truly feel that you have something to say to him, say it to his face. Texting him this stuff will cheapen your words a LOT. Also, this guy seems like a real rubber band. Go out and do something, and leave him alone for a while. Link to post Share on other sites
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