brokenrightnow Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 he broke up with me this weekend. I have not heard from him. but he has not changed his facebook statuts to single? is that a good sign? Link to post Share on other sites
JaggedRoad Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 It took a few days for my ex to change her status to single. Don't hang onto hope just because of that. Link to post Share on other sites
symbol Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 he broke up with me this weekend. I have not heard from him. but he has not changed his facebook statuts to single? is that a good sign? It's only been a few days, perhaps he didn't have the time to change it. Sorry, I don't want to be a downer, but it's best for you if you just ignore these little "sign"s because it's likely they don't mean anything... Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokenrightnow Posted October 30, 2009 Author Share Posted October 30, 2009 he was never type to update his status and now he is. i am sure he wants me to read them. he isn't putting anything exciting, regular mundane things he does during the day. same things he used to do when were together i almost feel he is doing it just so I can read it and know that he isnt doing anything FUN and EXCITING now that we broke up. Link to post Share on other sites
Confused728 Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 my ex kept his status in relationship for about a month, i changed mine to single almost right away, i think he seen mine and changed his.. Link to post Share on other sites
symbol Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 i almost feel he is doing it just so I can read it and know that he isnt doing anything FUN and EXCITING now that we broke up. OMG, you're reading so much into things. It could also mean he's trying to let you know that everything is as usual with him and he's not devastated. Please do yourself a favor and stop checking FB. If he wants you back, he would definitely let you know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokenrightnow Posted October 30, 2009 Author Share Posted October 30, 2009 argghhh i know you are right. i need to hear those things. I am killing myself here. i am so desperately seeking a little hope of reconciliation. Link to post Share on other sites
JaggedRoad Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 Pretend that there will never be a reconciliation. Link to post Share on other sites
symbol Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 I think the best you can do right now is to engage yourself with activities. Meet with friends, see a movie, exercise. Just do anything to take your mind off him. Sitting in front of your computer looking at FB to see some sort of sign for reconciliation is not going to make you feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
LovelyDaze Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 Not to tee tee in your lemonade but it's only been within the week. Some people are just lazy. Whatever YOU do, change your status to single because that is what you are. I am nursing a broken heart myself and have decided to go on here to iron out any wrinkles I may be dillusionally thinking. Just move on and don't look back. Trust me, it's better to have the person want you back after you moved on then want them after THEY have moved on. Link to post Share on other sites
Confused728 Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 i changed mine almost right away my ex like after a month and he the one that didnt wanna work it out with me, i think he put his single because i did, his said in relationship for while Link to post Share on other sites
Lamak Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 /hate facebook. Anyway, he most likely just doesn't feel like changing, because he will get alot of attention. Questions on the breakup, girls, etc etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokenrightnow Posted October 30, 2009 Author Share Posted October 30, 2009 that is why I dont want to change it. too much attention/questions. ughhh...never again. facebook relationship status' are the devil. never again. Link to post Share on other sites
GoneButNotForgotten Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 Just remove the relationship status part. Change it to blank and it doesn't put out the broken heart thing or whatever. And you are reading too much into it, I'm pretty sure one of my ex's changed hers within like 10 minutes of the breakup. It took me a while before I even remembered to change the thing. I almost never look at my own profile. Link to post Share on other sites
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