hubby Posted December 7, 2003 Share Posted December 7, 2003 Hello people! Recently, I got to get close to a friend of a friend through the net who I haven't even met yet. We found many things in common and exchange e-mail everyday and chat whenever we could be on-line at the same time as we do not live in the same time-zone (the other side of the globe!). I'm really getting to like her but I am trying hard not to have feelings towards her as I haven't met her yet and I do not know her "that"well. But when she writes those caring words in e-mails with greetings such as "good morning my dear 'my name'", I'm getting to feel that she may be having the same feeling to, but again, trying not to feel it just like I am going through. But ofcourse, I don't know... She's a very lovable person and maybe she's just nice... maybe she says those things to all of her friends... but again, I don't know. This maybe a weird question. Can someone, specially girls, give me some idea on what may be going on? Thank you very much in advance! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 7, 2003 Share Posted December 7, 2003 It is surprisingly easy to feel deep feelings for a cyber-friend. You have to keep your head about this because, no matter how well you think you know someone this way, you really cannot get the whole picture. She may well be having feelings for you but I'd caution her exactly the same way. By the way, I hope you didn't use 'hubby' as a nick because you're somebody's hubby! Link to post Share on other sites
hubby Posted December 7, 2003 Share Posted December 7, 2003 Thank you for the reply moimeme! She is no stranger actually because we were in fact introduced before... it's just that I didn't remember her until she e-mailed me through the net where she found me by accident... and yes, she is a friend of my good pal. The fact is that she is a really nice girl... though, I don't know if she is being nice to me just because she is really a nice girl. What can you say about her greeting me with a "my dear 'my name'"? Does that actually show her affection to me as someone more than a 'friend'? Sorry, I'm really puzzled... By the way, I'm pretty much single. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 7, 2003 Share Posted December 7, 2003 It's really hard to know without knowing the girl. Some women do use endearments as a matter of course, others reserve them for special people. Your best bet is to ask the friend who knows her. Link to post Share on other sites
hubby Posted December 7, 2003 Share Posted December 7, 2003 Thank you moimeme!!! Anyone else who has any thoughts about this, I'd appreciate! Link to post Share on other sites
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