knightzen Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 I am 31 year old Male, and My special first love of 8 years , soul mate and fiancée left me to work “temporarily” overseas more then 2 years ago, it was only meant to be for one year. I tried but was unable to go over due to strict visa’s restrictions, so since then I have been stuck here living in my sad, gloomy life, with no success in finding a new relationship. I heard that my ex has moved on and is in a committed relationship with someone else, and my heart tears apart again. I cant seem to move on. I just have so many memories of her her, including her love letters, photos, which I don’t know if should be thrown out. I have been diagnosed severely depressed and have had therapy and medication , but it has not helped enough, I just keep thinking about her and miss her. My friends have told me that I need to find myself , my identity, before I can find new love, but this is so hard as I seem to only be happy when I am waking up next to someone who I love. The pain hurts just as much as it did when it first ended, is there any hope in me finding happiness and love again ? Link to post Share on other sites
JaggedRoad Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 Of course there is hope. There is always hope, but it's your choice to decide whether or not you want to have hope for happiness. Try to take your mind off your ex and your past relationship by improving yourself. Dress differently, groom yourself, and the likes. Look attractive again! Link to post Share on other sites
Thebob Posted November 1, 2009 Share Posted November 1, 2009 I'm sorry man, were all goin through this same ****, and it sucks. I miss waking up next to my girl and looking in to her eyes, then we kiss and get up and look at each other like nothing in the world could be any better. Then we hug, make out, then decide what we want to do for the rest of the day, then watch a movie and cuddle then go to bed and nothing in the world can possibly go wrong. I miss it man, but I know that I have to move on, and I feel like I am ready to start dating someone again, because I miss that feeling of being cared for so much that it sucks. I sometimes hope that my next relationship isnt 10 years down the road and I hope I find someone preferably soon, but you never know. I really miss being on someones mind, who calls you and everything to see if your ok and how your day is going. Jesus I feel like im having a relapse writing this post, but I cant. Gotta stay strong. YOu just have to plan for the absolute worst when you break up. Just suspect that they are seeing someone else right now and it's over so you can move on. IT ****ING SUCKS!!!! Thebob Link to post Share on other sites
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